He Found Out That His Wife Cheated On Her Ex-Husband With Her Guy Best Friend And Was Recently “Reminiscing” About Their Sneaky Behavior Over Text
This 43-year-old guy has been married to his wife, who is 39, for seven years. However, over 10 years ago, she worked with a different man– who is reportedly her “best guy friend.”
His wife still keeps in touch with the guy. Plus, he and his wife have even gone on vacation with her friend and her friend’s wife in the past.
However, several months ago, he was looking over his wife’s shoulder when he saw a “questionable” text come in from her guy best friend.
This strange message pushed him to snoop on his wife’s phone as soon as he got the chance, and he uncovered some shocking information.
He learned that during his wife’s last marriage, she had a friends-with-benefits relationship with her guy best friend.
“It was a bad relationship, and I actually don’t blame her for seeking a relationship outside of her marriage, given the state it was in,” he admitted.
So, he wasn’t shocked to find both steamy texts and photos from long before he even knew his wife.
However, one set of messages did grab his attention. Apparently, his wife and her guy best friend had been reminiscing about all of the times they had to sneak around.
He and his wife currently live in a different state than the guy, so he knows there is definitely nothing going on between them right now. He is also confident that nothing sneaky has gone on throughout their entire relationship.
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“So I don’t even really mind them reminiscing,” he said.
Still, two specific things have been really bugging him. First of all, he did previously ask his wife if she had been physical with the guy. But, at the time, she just denied ever having a relationship with the guy, and it started a massive argument between them. And he just cannot understand why his wife didn’t trust him enough to just be honest.
On top of that, he reportedly found stories of some crazy hookup experiences that his wife and her friend had together. So, he is kind of jealous because his wife isn’t physical with him multiple times a night like in those stories and doesn’t do some of the crazy things with him that she did with her guy best friend.
“I love my wife, and I don’t think she has any desire to be with this guy anymore or doubt her loyalty to me,” he explained.
He also thinks that being parents of small children, they have a pretty good romance going.
Nonetheless, the messages have left him feeling uneasy. He doesn’t feel like he can even confront his wife because then he would have to admit to going through her phone, which he realizes was a breach of trust on his part.
So now, he’s been left wondering how to handle this sticky situation.
Is it a red flag that his wife lied to him about her relationship with her best guy friend? How would you feel if your spouse was “reminiscing” about a past sneaky relationship? Should he still confront his wife even though he went through her phone? What would you do?
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