Her Boyfriend Invited An Ex-Convict To Live With Them Without Even Telling Her First

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Photographee.eu - stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 28-year-old woman has been with her boyfriend, who is 31, for five years and has been living with him for three years.

But, earlier this year, her boyfriend started telling her about a “friend,” a 33-year-old guy he had met.

Then, she found out that her boyfriend’s new friend had actually been convicted of “minor” assault charges eight years ago.

Still, she did not read too much into their friendship until she returned home two months ago and went into sheer panic mode after realizing that a man– who she had never even met– was in her home.

Well, it turned out that her boyfriend had invited the ex-convict to live with them and never even told her!

“And my partner left the man alone in our house while he went to go buy additional groceries and living supplies for him to be more comfortable,” she recalled.

While this might have been the end of the relationship for some people, she actually managed to forgive her boyfriend after they had numerous conversations in private about the situation.

Still, she did give her boyfriend one condition: if the man ever started disrupting their lives, then he would be forced to move out.

Now, her boyfriend agreed to that at the time. But she claims that since then, the man has undeniably disrupted her life in countless ways.

However, just yesterday, she reached her ultimate breaking point.

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It all began when she went to take a shower, and her boyfriend’s friend just waltzed into the bathroom without even knocking. Then, the man proceeded to use the toilet despite there being three other bathrooms in her house!

“It took me literally screaming at the top of my lungs at him for my partner to hear and come into the bathroom and get his ‘friend’ to leave,” she revealed.

And while she expected her boyfriend to be furious at the man for violating her privacy, her boyfriend actually just dismissed the whole situation– claiming that his friend “obviously” just had to go to the bathroom.

“Which I can’t even begin to comprehend,” she said. “It’s just so incredibly stupid and not at all an excuse.”

And now, she has no idea what to do. At the end of the day, she realizes that since it’s her boyfriend’s house, he ultimately decides who lives there. However, she has lived with him for three years already.

“I’m just incredibly confused as to why he seems to no longer value my opinion or my life that has been turned upside down by his ‘friend,'” she vented.

So, she’s been left wondering how to proceed and handle this situation.

Does it sound like she’s in a safe situation? Why do you think her boyfriend keeps dismissing her concerns? Would you stay in this relationship?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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