His Best Friend From College Totally Ghosted Him After She Graduated And Moved Away, But Now She Wants Him To Just Forgive Her And Go Back To Normal

Kostiantyn - stock.adobe.com-  illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Kostiantyn - stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 23-year-old man met his female friend, who is also 23, back when they were in college. Even though they were taking different classes, they immediately hit it off and wound up becoming great friends.

“You could say she was my best friend, and we used to literally hang out every day,” he recalled.

Then, about a year later, he graduated from college one year before his friend. And while they still used to talk, it still did not feel the same.

According to him, his friend hated college, too, and did not talk to that many other people. Plus, she still didn’t really like the classmates she actually talked to.

Regardless, his friend toughed out the last year of college and eventually graduated as well. Afterward, she got offered a new job and moved to a new city, but she completely ghosted him in the process.

Apparently, his friend did not tell him about any of this, and she just blocked him out of nowhere on all platforms.

“Leaving no way for me to contact her at all,” he explained.

“I even tried to text her sister multiple times, but she never answered, either, so I just stopped.”

Anyway, their friendship ended at the beginning of this year, and he tried to move on. Yet, just two days ago, he was shocked to receive a text from his ex-best friend.

Kostiantyn – stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

All she said was, “Hi,” and he honestly had no clue how to respond. So, all he messaged back was, “Hey.”

Then, he and his friend engaged in some small talk for a couple of minutes before his friend apologized for leaving him like that. She also had the nerve to ask him if he could just not be angry and their friendship could go back to the way it was before.

“I missed her like crazy, and she didn’t care enough to even give me a reason,” he vented.

That’s why he thinks the real reason why his friend reached out again is that perhaps her “new life” following college was not everything she expected. So, he believes his friend only texted him and wants to reconnect now since nothing else is panning out in her life as she’d hoped.

Regardless, he’s now been left to decide whether or not he should forgive his friend, and he has no clue what to do.

Is it natural for people to drift apart after college? Even so, does it seem like his friend deliberately ended their friendship out of the blue? Should he feel obligated to forgive his friend? What would you do if you were in his shoes?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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