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Her Husband Cried As He Gave Her An Ultimatum: Open Up Their Marriage So He Can Sleep With Other Women, Or They Can Get Divorced

Throughout the last 18 months, she has been turning down his advances, and he has been inquiring as to what he can do to help her get back to how they used to be.

While her husband tried to broach this sensitive topic in a kind manner, she didn’t take it well at all and was deeply upset.

They then went through their first major fight before saying sorry and making up. Yet, several weeks after this went down, he tried to discuss this subject with her once again.

Next, they attempted therapy together, and they ended up seeing several different therapists, who all concluded that her husband had expectations that just were not realistic.

“In those sessions, my husband’s response was that he isn’t ready to compromise on something that’s so important to him,” she said.

“He was asked if it’s more important to him than having a healthy marriage, and while he said no, in hindsight there was some definite hesitancy.”

“Over the following months, I noticed a decrease in emotional affection on his end. It’s hard to put a finger on, and for a while, I told myself it was just in my head. He’s still attentive, caring, and affectionate, but there is just a lack of depth in the [closeness] compared to the past 7-8 years.”

Her husband hasn’t been initiating the way he used to, and she thought that meant he was trying to compromise with her, but when she did try to speak to him about this, he said he was upset with being rejected so much, and that was why he backed off.

It hurt her to hear this, and she said she wasn’t trying to necessarily reject him. The conversation hasn’t come up for months since that, and she figured everything was fine.

However, last night, her husband shocked her when he walked into the bedroom after tucking their kids into bed, and insisted they had to talk.

She instantly knew whatever he had to say had to do with their personal life, but that didn’t prepare her for what came out of his mouth.

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