She Convinced Her Husband To Get Married But Not Tell Anyone Until They Do Have A Big Wedding, But She’s Still Upset That He Hasn’t Told His Best Friend Yet

This 29-year-old woman and her husband, who is also 29, have been together for about seven years now, but they only recently tied the knot.
When they first met, they started off as best friends. Then, their friendship soon blossomed into a romantic relationship.
“We’ve been through a lot,” she said, “And I’ve known his entire family, which is a whole lot of people.”
Her family, on the other hand, is a much smaller group of only about 10 members.
Anyway, this past year, she decided that she wanted to pursue her postgraduate studies in Barcelona, so she and her husband moved there. He also proposed to her before the move and really wants to throw a large, princess-type wedding.
Now, she would honestly prefer to have a smaller, more intimate celebration. However, her husband is dead set on having a massive wedding, and they are going with that.
So, prior to moving to Barcelona, she suggested that they just get legally married in order to get the documentation. No celebration or anything, but simply to have the paperwork.
Her husband wasn’t on board with that, though, and threw a huge fit. He just didn’t see the point in getting married before moving.
“But for me, it was more about how, in case we had some problem with any of our residencies in Spain, the fact that we are married would help cover the other,” she explained.

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That’s why she was eventually able to convince her husband to get legally married under the condition that no one in her husband’s family– aside from his mother, father, and brothers– would know.
She was fine with that, too, and agreed to her husband’s terms. So, she and her husband have been married for three months now, and no one other in-laws has found out.
“My husband says they’ll be crushed because we didn’t invite anyone else because, for them, it’s all about the party and drinks, and we didn’t have the money to do the big wedding,” she detailed.
Still, she is a bit upset that her husband hasn’t told some other people about their marriage– like his best friend.
To be clear, she and her husband have shared the news with some old coworkers, her friends, and her family.
However, the fact that her husband hasn’t told his own best friend or any of his other close friends is starting to make her pretty angry.
But she’s also not sure if asking her husband to finally tell his best friend would be the wrong thing to do.
“Am I overreacting?” she asked.
Didn’t she already convince her husband to get legally married under the condition that they kept it a secret until their real wedding? Can you understand why he wants to wait? Why do you think she wants to expand the list of people who know now? Is she in the wrong here or not?
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