His Girlfriend Moved Out While He Was At Work, Took His Cat And His Things, Then Blocked Him
A couple of days ago, this 29-year-old man returned home from work to discover that his 30-year-old girlfriend had moved out unexpectedly.
Not only did his girlfriend not tell him that she was moving out or ending their relationship, but she also took his cat and a few of his personal things.
He had his cat well before he met his girlfriend, so that made him super upset. She also took his laptop, his iPad, an expensive drawing tablet, his cologne she loved, a leather jacket she liked, and his tattoo machines.
“All are gone,” he explained. “No notes. I have nothing to understand this. Recently, she’s also been asking me for more money here and there; I gave her twice what she asked for to get her [a] new iPhone and some other little things.”
“I don’t care about the money; I make enough to rebuy the things, but I feel awful and broken; I miss her, and I don’t know anything. I think I should be angry or hate her, but she was the best before leaving suddenly.”
His girlfriend has struggled with depression in the past, but she has never seemed that way since they started dating.
She can be sad sometimes, but that’s it. She also has a therapist who has insisted she’s doing wonderfully and has been for a while.
So, he doesn’t think depression is what motivated his girlfriend to take his cat and his things and then ghost him.
His girlfriend has also blocked him since moving out silently, and he has no clue where she even is.
Evrymmnt – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person or cat
He never argued with her ever, so that can’t be why she left so suddenly. Another strange thing is that his girlfriend blocked all of her friends, who happen to be his friends too.
“I just don’t understand what has happened,” he said. “We painted together, watched movies together, worked out together, talked and talked and laughed a lot, had a great [personal] life, cut each other’s hair, went shopping, date nights, parties; I absolutely insanely love her, and she does [love me] too.”
“I thought she did. I’ve had enough relationships to know that she did. Not long ago, when I had to visit my old man, she FaceTimed to talk in my earbuds throughout the night and just [to] hear me breathe. It’s probably cringe to you, it’d be to me, but that’s just how close we are. I don’t know what happened. I don’t know what to do.”
“She had asked me to get her a very specific ring with a specific jewel a year into our relationship. And we talked about it a lot, about the future. She was so excited I cared to have the ring made, it wasn’t a super expensive ring to sell, she asked for one made of a certain wood.”
The only person who knows his girlfriend who has reached out to him is her sister, who asked him a bunch of bizarre questions before she stopped responding to him.
His girlfriend’s sister asked him why he left his girlfriend, what he did to her, and where she was, but none of that made any sense to him.
He’s so upset he can’t eat. When his friends asked him what happened, he didn’t have the heart to tell them the truth.
He just said he and his girlfriend broke up. He’s left wondering if he should just try to move on and forget about her, even though he has no answers.
What advice do you have for him?
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