She Went On A Bad First Date With A Guy Who Was Angry She Was 10 Minutes Late To The Restaurant Even Though He Changed The Time Last-Minute

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LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual people

Most people have it tough in the dating world, so there’s no shortage of horrific dating experiences to share.

A TikTok creator named Leyla (@leylaaariburnu) is discussing how she went on a bad first date with a guy who was prone to mood swings and had no sense of boundaries since he tried to force her to do things she didn’t want to do. The worst part was that he probably thought his behavior was totally normal.

On Sunday, a guy she matched with on a dating app asked her out for dinner and drinks. He let her know that he would meet up with her at 8:30, but later, he texted her saying that he would actually be there early, at around 7:30.

However, she had made plans during the day with her mom and her best friend, so she had to rush to get ready for their date.

She finished getting ready at 7:40 and arrived at the restaurant ten minutes later. When she found him sitting at a table, he was fuming about how late she was.

She told him that he had changed the time for their date at the last minute, so she had needed to adjust her schedule to accommodate that.

They continued chatting as they enjoyed their food and drinks, and everything seemed to be going normally.

But suddenly, in the middle of their conversation, he became enraged and blurted out that he had to leave. When Leyla asked if she had done something to offend him, he stated that she wasn’t very nice.

At that point, they had been on the date for about thirty minutes. She said that she would stay behind and finish up her food and drink, but he retorted that he wasn’t leaving the restaurant unless she left with him.

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They went back and forth for a bit, with her asking him to leave and him refusing to. The exchange ended with them sitting in silence as she ate.

Finally, she decided to be the bigger person and apologized for whatever it was she had said to make him so upset. He gladly accepted the apology and then offered to take her out for cupcakes after dinner.

Leyla was confused because it was like a switch had been flipped. He had just been furious with her not even a few minutes ago but was now acting super nice.

She turned down his idea and informed him that she would be walking home. He insisted on driving her, refusing to take no for an answer. So, she got into his car, and they made the short drive back to her apartment.

As she sat in his car, waiting for him to unlock the door so she could leave, he started massaging her neck out of nowhere.

He wouldn’t stop when she asked him to and tried to convince her to stay in the car. Then, he gave her a gift, which turned out to be a Fruit Roll-up.

He wanted her to eat it, but she declined. Next, he asked her to massage a spot on his forehead. By then, she was terrified, so she did what he requested.

Luckily, she could see her doorman from where she was sitting, so she made eye contact with him, trying to signal to him that she needed assistance. When the doorman started to approach the vehicle, she pointed him out and said she had to go.

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