She’s A Lawyer Breaking Down The Real Differences Between Preferences And Boundaries In Relationships

Le Bon clarifies that everyone is allowed to have their own preferences, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

But in this case, Jackson brought his concerns/preferences onto a public platform, inviting the internet into what should’ve been a private discussion.

Furthermore, he communicated his preference as a form of control rather than a dealbreaker. When you express your preference as a form of control, you’re deliberately trying to shame the person for what they’re doing so that they comply with your preference. And that is not what boundaries are about.



? original sound – Elica Le Bon ????? ? ??

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