He’s Considering Divorce After Only Six Months Of Marriage Because He Feels Like He Rushed Into Tying The Knot, And His Wife Is Constantly Trying To Control Everything

javiindy - - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Six months ago, this 27-year-old man and his wife, 29, married, and they have been arguing throughout their entire marriage. He and his wife dated for a year before getting married, and they had issues leading up to their wedding, too.

They have many problems, but one is how disrespectfully his wife speaks to him. She always yells at him and doesn’t care if they’re alone or around other people, even strangers when she does it.

Yesterday, a real estate agent came over to their house because they were trying to sell it so that they could move somewhere else. They renovated their kitchen not long ago, and the project added square footage to the room. He estimated that their renovations added roughly 80 square feet to the kitchen, but he decided to quickly take some measurements to make sure.

“As I got the tape measure out and started to measure, she twisted her head and snapped at me, and yelled to stop. Taking the square feet of the kitchen would’ve taken not even two minutes,” he said.

He was understandably stunned and saddened that his wife screamed at him, especially in front of their real estate agent. However, he didn’t address his wife’s behavior then because he worried about causing more tension and making the real estate agent uncomfortable. Later, when they were alone, he spoke to his wife, and she twisted the situation.

“She gaslit me and said it’s her culture to be loud, that I make a big deal out of everything. She is a blame-shifting expert,” he explained.

Every time they fight about something his wife did, she tells him everything is his fault, and she never takes accountability for her actions. She said he should have been more confident and authoritative about measuring the kitchen.

In response, he said that the moment she began yelling, there was no point in having a mature discussion with her, so he chose to move on because he didn’t want to make their real estate agent uncomfortable.

Unfortunately, his wife is even angrier when they’re alone. On one occasion, at 9 a.m., his wife shrieked her head off because she didn’t think he was getting ready quickly enough for a flight they had to catch.

javiindy – – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

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