She Realized Her Husband Was Deleting His Texts With His Female Best Friend, So Now She Wants To Start A Conversation With The Woman On Her Husband’s Phone And Pretend To Be Him To See What’s Really Going On
This woman just tied the knot one month ago, and her husband’s female best friend from college was there.
To be clear, she never actually had any issues with his friend. Well, that was until her maid of honor overheard her husband’s friend saying something totally out of line at her wedding.
Apparently, her husband’s friend was talking to another wedding guest. And at one point, the other guest started teasing her husband’s friend about how her husband was “the one who got away.”
In response to that, her husband’s best friend said that she didn’t lose him. Rather, his friend actually said that she could “have” her husband whenever she wanted him.
Now, her maid of honor obviously told her about what happened. But, even though she couldn’t stop thinking about it, she didn’t say anything until just a few days ago. After all, she didn’t want to ruin their honeymoon.
However, once she finally confronted her husband, he just denied that anything had ever happened between him and his female best friend.
“He was very calm when he said it. Almost too calm?” she recalled.
Regardless, she realized that she didn’t have any proof her husband was lying. Plus, she trusted him.
Yet, she eventually had a change of heart while she and her husband were driving in the car together. Apparently, her phone had died, so she borrowed his.
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“He was driving, and I was making a playlist on his phone. Then I looked through his iMessage, and he had NO thread with her. I mean, I know for a fact that they text,” she explained.
Still, she found absolutely nothing on his phone, and it made no sense to her.
Then, just last night, she physically watched as her husband’s female friend’s name popped up in his text messages. But, after he went to bed and she checked his phone, there were no texts again!
“So he is deleting them!” she revealed.
This has left her totally torn about what to do, too. On the one hand, she knows that if she straight up asks her husband, he will just deny it.
“But I need to know, and I need proof… I need proof and peace of mind,” she vented.
That’s why she’s now considering using her husband’s phone to start a conversation with his female best friend – pretending to be him just to “see what’s up.”
However, before she goes behind her husband’s back and does that, she’s not sure if that would be the wrong thing to do.
How would you feel if your husband’s female best friend made a comment like that at your wedding? Does she have a right to be suspicious? What would you do in her shoes?
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