The Guy She’s Been Dating Just Told Her That He’s Overwhelmed And Feels Like She’s More Invested Than He Is

“I’m not naive – dated enough to know that all of this is enough to end things,” she said. “So, despite being really into him and us really enjoying our time together, I told him it was no problem, and I hope he finds what he’s looking for.”

“He’s still continuing to message me, though, and when I said, “You just told me you aren’t sure about me, so I’m not going to waste any more of your time,” he said, “I don’t know, is it bad of me to say that?”

“I don’t know where to go from here. On one hand, he’s acknowledging he probably won’t ever be what I need; on the other, he doesn’t want to let things end. I don’t know if I reply to his last message or if I begin no contact.”

She just feels awful having to end something that was going well simply because their feelings are different at this point in time.

What advice do you have for her?

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