Bre Avery Zacharski
“After receiving my dress at home, Cole wanted to see it, and when I showed him, he told me that it might not be suitable since it looked like a grandma’s dress,” she said.
“Looking in the mirror, I understood his point and felt disheartened because he was right. Cole cares deeply for me and always wants the best. He’s one of the few people I trust and often proves his instincts right, which has been incredibly supportive and helpful in really hard situations.”
“Cole reassured me that everything would be ok and took the dress with my MIL, who is an expert in dress alterations.”
One week after Cole and her mother-in-law took her wedding dress to be altered, she was having dinner with her family one evening.
Her dad questioned her if she was feeling like a princess in light of her special day, and she enthusiastically said yes, considering that Cole was improving her dress.
Her dad got upset, and she filled him in on why Cole had her wedding dress. Her dad then stated she allowed Cole to alter her dress because he’s the one who disliked it.
She responded that it wasn’t like that; Cole simply showed her how awful she looked, and he was right in wanting changes to be made to it.
Her dad actually got up and left their family dinner. She tried to text and call her dad, but he ignored her.
“When I asked my sister what had upset him, she accused me of hurting our dad by letting Cole change the dress just because he didn’t like it,” she added.
“She suggested I ask Cole why, mocking me, that I couldn’t make decisions without him.”
While she feels sad that she broke her dad’s heart over this situation with her wedding dress, she maintains Cole is all about her best interests. He even sold his car in order to have the cash to fund around a third of their wedding.
