Joan likes to think she’s part of society and enjoys dropping into community events, but she’s not artsy in the least.
She suspects Joan is interested in the class since it will allow her to exercise her inner cougar – it is an excuse to be around attractive guys.
She’s grossed out to think about this but is fully aware Joan is going for the eye candy and not the artistic instruction.
“When she mentioned she was taking the class, I said, “Oh. Wait, no, Sam is modeling in that class.” Joan gave a faux-shocked face and said, “Oh, IS he?” and smiled with raised eyebrows. Ewww again,” she added.
“Joan has never said anything OVERTLY wildly inappropriate about Sam before, but she has made some comments about him (and his friends) that I’d consider more than borderline.”
“I would rather that she not be involved with this at all or that Sam would not model for the upcoming round of classes.”
She’s wondering if it would be wrong of her to somehow put a stop to this. Her husband shares her opinion that Joan signing up for the class is cringe.
She’s worried it will make her a jerk to intervene instead of minding her own business. She would like to convince Joan to drop out of the class or tell Sam to not model while Joan is participating.
She would hate to tell her son he’s not allowed to model, but she would like to find an alternative solution so it doesn’t come down to that.
What do you think she should do?
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