She Doesn’t Want To Share Any Photos From Her Wedding With Her Guests Because She And Her Husband Split Up Just Four Months Later
When you say yes to a proposal, go through the trouble of planning a whole wedding, and walk down the aisle, the intention is obviously to stay married to your new spouse for a very long time.
But, unfortunately, things just don’t always work out how we want them to.
This woman and her husband were married for just four short months after their wedding before they ultimately separated.
“Before we even got our wedding pictures and video back,” she revealed.
Then, once the photos and video were finally ready, she and her ex-husband actually went to pick them up. They also looked through everything together once.
Understandably, though, now that they are no longer together, she doesn’t really want to share the wedding photos with anyone else.
“I have nothing against the pictures. Our photographer and videographer did an amazing job, and they are absolutely beautiful, but they don’t represent a happy day for me,” she explained.
“And I recently got a notification from Facebook of someone commenting on some pictures one of my bridesmaids took on my wedding day, and it threw me into a funk.”
On top of that, one of her ex-husband’s male friends has actually been pestering her for months – asking for her to share the wedding pictures with him. Apparently, the guy just thinks the images would be a nice memory from a beautiful day.
Nina L/peopleimages.com – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
However, she honestly just does not want to share the photos since she’d prefer not to see anything about her wedding on social media.
“I can’t exactly say that I’ll give them the pictures, but they can’t share them,” she reasoned.
That’s why she wants to avoid the awkwardness altogether and tell her wedding guests that, due to her and her ex’s separation, she will not be sharing any of the wedding photos.
Still, her ex-husband doesn’t even know that his friend has been asking for the pictures for a long time now.
“And probably would give them to him had he been asked directly,” she vented.
So now, she’s not sure if refusing to share any wedding photos with guests is justified or unreasonable.
Is she obligated to share the photos with her guests? Or is it her choice since it was her wedding? What would you do in her shoes?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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