Katharina Buczek
For some context, he and Sarah have been dating for three years now, and they are planning a future together. That’s why they’ve discussed goals such as buying a home and starting a family together.
Given this, Sarah believed that he should save his money for their own future as opposed to funding his sister’s college.
“I get her point,” he admitted, “But Emily’s education is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and I couldn’t let her miss out because of money.”
He tried telling his girlfriend that, too, but she’s still angry at him and thinks he’s not prioritizing their relationship’s future.
He, on the other hand, believes that helping his sister out doesn’t mean he’s not committed to their future plans.
“I can still save and plan with Sarah, but Emily’s need is immediate and crucial,” he reasoned.
“I love Sarah and want a future with her, but I also want to support my sister in achieving her dreams.”
Now, this has left him wondering how to balance both his girlfriend’s and his sister’s needs without feeling like he is “failing” either of them.
Can you understand why he wants to help his sister? Does his girlfriend have valid concerns or not? What advice would you give him?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
