Bre Avery Zacharski
“Sunday morning, I wake up to a slew of Facebook messages from my ex’s new wife about my audacity to attend the wedding and how out of all his former girlfriends, I was the only one who failed the test,” she explained.
“She said that CLEARLY, you shouldn’t attend an ex’s wedding unless you’re still hung up on them and how I must be planning to steal her new husband away. I was shocked, but [I] also apologized if I had been unwelcomed and how I must have misunderstood as my reason for attending was to see old friends.”
“She immediately responded and again said that no sane woman, with good intentions, would ever think it was okay to attend their ex’s wedding. I again apologized if I was unwelcomed and hoped my presence hadn’t detracted from her day.”
From there, she sent Adam a message saying that she was so sorry and that she sincerely wished that she had not caused problems.
Adam responded that he was happy she had come to his wedding and that he had been genuine in extending the invitation.
Adam also said he was thrilled to get to see all of their old friends come together before saying that he was terribly sorry about his wife’s messages.
Figuring the case was closed, she moved on, but hours afterward, Adam’s wife was messaging her once again.
This time, Adam’s wife was whining about how she attempted to make it seem like she was insane.
“I decided this was not a ship I wanted to sail on, took a screenshot of all her messages and my replies, sent them to the ex, and said I was just going to go ahead and block them both so I couldn’t be accused of inappropriate contact with anyone,” she added.
“Yesterday, I started getting messages from the bride’s sister saying I poisoned my ex against his new wife, and I should have kept the messages to myself.”
“I’m also being told I could have just avoided all of this by knowing I shouldn’t attend my ex’s wedding. I’m honestly not sure if I’m in the wrong or [if] I’m being gaslit by an insecure woman and her sister.”
