Chip Chick Staff

Love vs. obsession – two things that can quickly become blurred when you first meet someone, and those sparks fly. It’s sometimes hard to know if you really are in love with someone or if you’re just kind of, well, obsessed. More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. For many, getting engaged means diving 150% into wedding planning. It’s a crazy and exciting time of your life to be ready to take that next step in your relationship. Getting engaged is the first step in two lives becoming one. Many people are […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. How many of you watch TV shows like How I Met Your Mother, Friends, or New Girl? Hopefully, not just me – because I watch and rewatch all these shows religiously. Why? Because I can relate. I’m sure, on some level, everyone can relate […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. Many different theories help people make sense of how they form attachments and develop relationships. One such theory is Attachment Theory, developed first by psychologist John Bowlby and was expanded in the 1970s by psychologist Mary Ainsworth. The basis of attachment theory begins in […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. People like to think that falling out of love happens to couples who are incompatible for whatever reason or shouldn’t have been together in the first place. But the harsh reality is that falling out of love can happen to any couple, even those […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. In my senior year of high school, I was dating a girl I really liked. We had been dating for almost 3 years and were convinced we would spend the rest of our lives together. So when it came time to start applying to […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. Want to know what an interview and a dating profile have in common? They both require you to talk about yourself. Similar to talking about yourself in an interview, it can be daunting to know what to say in your dating profile to stand […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. Contrary to pop culture and popular belief, (mature) men and women want similar things out of a relationship. Usually, the confusion comes from communicating those needs and misinterpreting what the other wants from you. Don’t get me wrong – men may want similar things, […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. A new relationship can be exhilarating and full of passion. However, you want to proceed with caution to avoid falling victim to love bombing – a favored tactic of narcissists. What is love bombing? Love bombing is a form of emotional manipulation favored by […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. Communication is critical for any relationship to thrive. Therefore, it is a crucial skill to develop so that your partner understands what you are saying to them. Sending mixed messages means a disconnect between what you say and what you mean. When mixed messages […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. People tend to view boundaries as something you set once you’ve slapped a label on the relationship (dating, being “exclusive,” etc.). However, boundaries can be set for any relationship. Boundaries are lines that help keep you from becoming someone you aren’t – they provide […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. You’ve finally done it – after months of pinning Pinterest boards and making deposits – you’ve had the wedding day of your dreams! Now you get to spend the rest of your life with that special someone. While choosing the wedding colors and the […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. I consider myself extremely lucky that I have my wife. In my friend group, I am the only one. The rest of my friends are all single, and based on what they talk about, modern dating is tough. The dating game is ever-evolving. With […] More

The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. Yes, some men are easy to scare off and will run at the slightest indication that the relationship is getting serious. However, that does not mean you are entirely blame-free in every situation. You could be doing certain things to run off men without […] More

Everyone mourns the loss of a relationship in different ways. Some people throw themselves into their work, and others pick up new hobbies. Some people spend all their time with their friends, while others start a journey of personal development. Most relationship experts would probably agree that one of the worst ways to cope with […] More

Sometimes you cannot help who you fall in love with. You hope they will be your person – until you find out they are just toxic. Unfortunately, it happens to the best of us. If you have any experience with a toxic partner, you know they can make your life hell both during the relationship […] More

Your inner dialogue can either make you or break you as a person. Many of you have probably heard the expression, “you are your own worst critic.” This is undoubtedly true for many. Unfortunately, your self-talk can rob you of confidence and scare you from trying anything new out of fear of failure, rejection, or […] More

If Covid taught us anything, dating apps are here to stay. With apps like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and OkCupid, it’s easier than ever to meet someone (hopefully) special. You have hundreds of options at your fingertips; you are capable of picking the perfect guy/gal. Unfortunately, while swiping and matching up with compatible profiles is quick […] More

You don’t have to look far to find examples of people unhappy in their relationships. IRL, couples can argue at the movies, in a restaurant, at the grocery store, and everywhere in between. Last week I was walking downtown to my favorite coffee shop and overheard a couple of women talking hardcore trash about their […] More