Katharina Buczek
After this confrontation, the in-laws also began to talk badly about the bride-to-be. Apparently, one of the in-laws said, “First she steals my son away, then she tells me I can’t see my grandbabies at the wedding?”
These statements were not addressed until the wedding, though, when this woman greeted the in-laws at the venue’s front door.
“I was disappointed but not surprised to see her mother-in-law in a white dress with a smug look on her face as she tried to quickly bypass me,” the woman recalled, “I stopped her in her tracks.”
The woman recited the rule that no white dresses were allowed inside. The mother-in-law “scoffed” and tried to push past the woman again.
“Once she realized I wasn’t letting her by, she absolutely threw a fit. I let her get it all out before turning her away again. She said she’d call her son to let her in, but I had all the phones at the party in a lockbox,” the woman said.
The mother-in-law eventually left the venue and did not return. But, two days after the wedding, the groom attacked the woman for not letting his mother into the wedding.
“His wife trailed behind and agreed it was mean of me to not let her in. I am so confused and afraid I damaged our relationship as friends,” the woman said.
Now, she is left wondering if she was in the wrong.
If you gave your best friend explicit instructions for your wedding day, would you be mad that they followed them?
Or would you have expected an allowance made for their mother?
