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Boyfriend Blindness Can Cause You To Defend All Your Partner’s Actions And Behavior, Whether It’s Toxic Or Not
Have you ever met someone who had fallen so in love with their boyfriend that they completely ignored certain red flags and had a hard time accepting that their partner was flawed? That person could’ve been dealing with what’s called “boyfriend blindness.” When we’re so excited about dating someone new, the last thing we want […] More
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How To Know If It’s Just A Summer Fling Or If Your Relationship Could Be The Real Thing
Now that July has come to a close, many of you may have entered a bit of a summer fling. Perhaps you went on a casual summer date that turned into six dates or reconnected with an old flame who’s in town for the season. Either way, summer flings can be fun and a way […] More
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Here’s How To Tell You’re Getting Love-Bombed And Exactly What To Do About It
Have you ever heard the term “love bombing?” It may sound kind of lovely like someone’s unending love crashing in on you as powerfully as a bomb, but when you learn more about it, you begin to realize it’s actually pretty toxic. Don’t stress, though – by learning more about love bombing, how it works, […] More
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Is It Ever Ok To Ghost Someone? Let’s Discuss
Ghosting Means You Suddenly Stop Speaking To Someone Ghosting is a sudden and unexplained communication cutoff. You drop all forms of contact without giving that person any explanation. It’s Getting Rejected Without An Answer This usually includes texting, phone calls, and blocking on all social media, email, and other means of communication. Ghosting is a […] More
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Here’s How To Tell If You’re Stuck In A One-Sided Friendship, Putting In Way More Time And Care Than You Receive Back
While friendships are a gift and good, healthy friendships can bring so much to our lives, they can sadly take a turn and get to a more toxic point. One of the darker sides of friendship is being in a one-sided friendship. A one-sided friendship essentially means that between two friends, one puts in significantly […] More
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Whether Or Not It’s Okay To Snoop Through Your Partner’s Phone Is The Ultimate Question In Modern Relationships
These days, you’re bound to hear a lot of drama stories about people who discovered something shocking about their partner because they decided to go through their phones. The idea of looking through your partner’s phone, either once or routinely, to get to the bottom of something is a hot topic of debate. Some people […] More
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The Silver Lining Of Losing Friendships Is That You’re Presented With Opportunities For Growth And Reflection
One of the most devastating things a person can experience is losing a friend. The loss of a friend has the power to transform someone’s life completely, and it’s easy to fall into a deep depression when you and a friend decide to call it quits or unexpectedly end your friendship. I know I’ve felt […] More
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These Are The Signs It’s Time For You To Call It Quits In Your Relationship
It’s Important To Know When It’s Time To Walk Away From A Relationship When it comes to romance, knowing when it’s time for you to pull the plug and call it quits on your relationship can be as important as knowing when it’s right for you to say “I love you” for the very first […] More
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It’s Normal To Feel Sad Or Even Anxious After Returning Home From A Trip, So Here’s How To Beat The Post-Vacation Blues
Have you ever had the trip of a lifetime or an extremely relaxing vacation and then felt sort of depressed or even anxious upon returning home? That’s a normal experience for many people, and it’s definitely happened to me. After spending a month at a study abroad program in London one summer, I remember feeling […] More
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The Most Exciting, Difficult, And Important Relationship You Will Ever Have Is With Yourself
The whimsical and insightful Carrie Bradshaw once said, “The most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself.” While Carrie Bradshaw may be a fictional HBO character, that quote has meant a lot to people, and it’s a great one. I’m someone who has struggled with my ‘relationship’ with […] More
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Whether To Follow Your Head Or Your Heart Is The Ultimate Question When It Comes To Love
Have you ever been asked if you’ve been following your head or your heart regarding a certain situation? Or, perhaps, you’ve had to choose between your head and your heart while trying to solve a problem. If you don’t know about the difference between choosing between your head and your heart, allow me to break […] More
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Boost Your Mental Health With Blue Mind Theory, Which States That Being Near Or In Water Puts Your Mind Into A Relaxing And Meditative State
For me, one of the best parts of the summer is being able to go to the beach, listen to the sounds of the ocean, and take a long swim in the sea. There’s something about being in that setting that automatically relaxes me and gives me a sort of cleansing and recharged mindset. While […] More
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10 Unmistakable Signs You Aren’t A Real Love Interest; You’re Just His Rebound Girl
When A Relationship Comes To An End, Everyone Mourns Differently Everyone mourns the loss of a relationship in different ways. Some people throw themselves into their work, and others pick up new hobbies. Some people spend all their time with their friends, while others start a journey of personal development. The Worst Way To Cope […] More
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Friend Group Fallout Can Be Sudden And Terrifying: Here’s How To Cope With The Changing Dynamic
One of the most devastating things that can happen to a person is losing their best friend. Experiencing a friend break up is just as, if not more, painful than a relationship break up. However, there may be one thing that some would argue is more painful than both breakups: losing an entire group of […] More
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What Do You Do If Your Partner Wants An Open Relationship?
It Can Be Jarring If Your Partner Requests An Open Relationship Relationships come in all shapes and sizes. However, if your current relationship is monogamous, having your partner ask about an open relationship can be jarring. So when this happens, what do you do? First, You Need To Understand What An Open Relationship Is A […] More
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What Should You Do If You Meet Someone Online, Show Up To A Date With Them, And They Look Nothing Like Their Photos?
Let’s Talk About Catfishing What do you do if you meet someone online and show up to a date to find out you’ve been catfished? It’s a complicated answer. First, let’s go over what catfishing is for those who have been fortunate enough not to know what this phenomenon is. Online Dating Is Difficult Online […] More
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Are You Really In Love, Or Are You Just Kind Of Obsessed?
Crossing The Line From Love To Obsession Isn’t Always Obvious Love vs. obsession – two things that can quickly become blurred when you first meet someone, and those sparks fly. It’s sometimes hard to know if you really are in love with someone or if you’re just kind of, well, obsessed. It’s Important To Know […] More
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Tenured Friends Are Those Who Would Do Just About Anything For You And Are Committed To Your Friendship No Matter The Distance Or Time That’s Passed
One of the best and most secure feelings in the world is knowing you have a friend who would do just about anything for you, no matter what. This is typically a friend you’ve had for a long time, maybe even over ten years. However, that doesn’t necessarily have to be the case. You can […] More
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Stop Driving Yourself Insane With Relationship Anxiety Because The Stress Simply Isn’t Worth It
If you’re someone who has been deeply hurt by people you were in relationships with, you likely experience relationship anxiety now. For instance, I was ghosted by two different guys I really liked, and I’ve been a bit scarred since then. Now, every time a new relationship or even fling has come along, I get […] More
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Everyone Adores A Good Friends-To-Lovers Trope On TV, But Here’s How The Dynamic Can Really Play Out In Real Life
With the recent season of the insanely popular Netflix series “Bridgerton” focusing on the friends-to-lovers story of Penelope Featherington and Colin Bridgerton, more people have been discussing this kind of relationship. If you’ve ever fallen in love with someone who was your best friend first, you know the relationship comes with its own unique set […] More
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Seize The Summer And Savor Your Own Company With These Fun Solo Date Ideas
Now that it’s summertime, people are talking all about the fun kinds of dates they’re going to go on with either their partners or people they just met. A lot of people see summer as the perfect time for dating, as the beautiful weather gives us more opportunities to go on creative dates. For instance, […] More