Katharina Buczek
On top of that, she will have a ton of college friends in attendance. So, she thinks it will be quite confusing once they see suddenly realize that the celebration is also for a little girl’s birthday.
And at the root of it all, she was just really excited about her own special party. She never got to have a prom send-off or a high school graduation party. Instead, this was the first real celebration she planned to host at home, and she had picked out everything– from the cake to the decor.
Despite specifically planning the party entirely by herself, too, her mom’s coworker still has not even tried to get in touch with her. That’s why she is now genuinely considering just canceling the whole party.
Ever since her mom found out about that, though, her mom just keeps telling her not to be selfish and to share the day. Quite frankly, though, she just does not understand her mom’s perspective. Instead, it feels like she is just getting pushed aside.
“No one ever gives me props for my achievements, nor have they ever uplifted my hard work,” she vented. “I just wanted one party for my degree. Now, I can’t even have that.”
Regardless of her own feelings, though, her mom’s comments have started to get to her. So now, she’s been considering whether not wanting to merge her graduation party with a little girl’s birthday makes her a real jerk or not.
Is it understandable why she was excited about her own graduation party? Why do you think her mom doesn’t get that? Does she have a right to be upset about merging it with a kid’s birthday? Do you think she should cancel the celebration or handle this another way?
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