Her Best Friend’s Boyfriend Is Planning A Surprise Wedding, But She Thinks Her Friend Will Hate It, Especially Since Her Friend Was Planning On Taking A Break From The Relationship
This 25-year-old woman has a best friend named Sara, who is 26. And recently, Sara’s boyfriend, Adam, called her with some big news. He wanted to talk about a “surprise wedding.”
Apparently, Adam wanted her to distract Sara for an entire day. Then, he planned to surprise her best friend at home for a backyard wedding with all of Sara’s friends and family members.
To be honest, though, she told Adam that she wasn’t sure a surprise wedding was what Sara really wanted.
“Knowing she would hate this as she hates surprises. But I didn’t want to hurt his feelings,” she recalled.
In fact, her best friend actually loves planning and organizing events. Sara has also talked about getting married in the past and always envisioned tying the knot at a winter wedding.
But, the most important downside to the “surprise wedding” idea had to do with Sara’s relationship itself.
Not too long before receiving the call from Adam, Sara had actually confided in her– claiming that she and Adam had started to drift apart. Her best friend even planned to take a break from her boyfriend.
That’s why she was incredibly shocked to learn that Adam was planning a wedding– and a surprise one, no less– in front of everyone they knew.
“I encouraged him to instead have a more intimate proposal, as opposed to a surprise wedding, but Adam told me that I don’t know what Sara wants and he knows her better,” she explained.
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Still, she encouraged Adam to talk to Sara about what she wanted in a wedding. She hoped that during this conversation, her best friend would bring up wanting a winter wedding, and Adam would get the hint.
Nonetheless, Adam refused to do that and just insisted on going through with the surprise wedding. He also claimed he would get Sara’s sister to distract his girlfriend for the day instead of her.
So, she was honest with Adam and revealed how she felt obligated to tell her best friend about the plan. After all, she knew that Sara hated surprises, and she wanted her best friend to feel prepared rather than ambushed. Ever since she told Adam the truth, though, he has been calling her a total jerk.
“But I feel obligated to tell her. If it was me, I would want to know,” she vented.
She’s also worried that if her best friend doesn’t like the surprise wedding and finds out that she was aware of the plan, then Sara will be upset with her. Yet, at the same time, if she tells Sara about Adam’s intentions and her best friend did really want the surprise wedding, then she knows that would make her a jerk.
So now, she is stuck between a rock and a hard place and is wondering whether she should tell her best friend about the surprise wedding or not.
Can you imagine walking into a surprise wedding without even being proposed to first? Should she tell her best friend? What would you do?
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