His Wife Wants Her Guy Best Friend To Join Their Relationship
This 31-year-old guy and his wife, who is 34, recently moved back to his wife’s home state. And being that he did not know many people there, his wife started introducing him to her family and childhood friends.
Now, he thought that most of the people he met were wonderful. However, when he was introduced to his wife’s male best friend, who is 28, he immediately knew something was off.
“I noticed a connection between them,” he recalled.
“They never dated in the past, but you could tell there were more than just friendly feelings.”
He did hang out with his wife and her best friend after moving. The group all got drinks and had a pretty nice time. But he couldn’t help but notice the “not-so-friendly looks” that his wife and her friend were exchanging.
Afterward, a couple of months went by, and his wife started to become secretive about her phone. Whenever he walked by, his wife would quickly exit Snapchat. He also realized she had changed her passcode.
“No, I was not trying to snoop,” he clarified. “My phone was dead, and I was using hers to call a friend of mine.”
Then, just last night, his wife approached him with a bizarre question. She asked if it would be okay if she was “shared.”
He was obviously confused and asked his wife to repeat herself. So, she did– while starting to kiss him.
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According to him, they had never opened up their relationship in the past eight years they were together. That’s why he honestly had no idea what to say and claimed he needed to think about it.
However, he did decide to ask if his wife had anyone in mind to be “shared” with. At that point, she revealed she was thinking about her guy best friend.
He immediately became angry and jealous and began bombarding his wife with questions– mainly regarding whether she wanted to be with her best friend instead of him. He also asked if she just wanted one night as a group or if she wanted an entire relationship.
But she just got pretty quiet and refused to answer any of his questions.
“Which led me to believe she wanted more than just a hookup,” he said.
So, he ultimately left their house and turned off his cell phone. Then, he just drove around aimlessly for about three hours before he eventually slept in his car at a rest stop located just outside of town.
He later woke up to about 32 missed calls and over 100 messages. But he had work, so he has not yet gone home, and he has no idea what to do.
“What should I do, leave my wife or let her best friend in our relationship?” he asked.
How would you feel if your spouse asked to be “shared?” Do you think agreeing to that would ultimately ruin his marriage? Or is his relationship already on the rocks? How should he handle this?
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