Right Before Her Husband Passed Away, She Found Out About His Mistress, And Now This Girl Is Pressuring Her To Hand Over Her Husband’s Possessions Like His Wedding Ring So She Can Pass Them Down To Her Baby
I can only imagine how painful it must be to find out that your spouse cheated on you. But I can hardly fathom finding out they’re having a baby with the person they cheated on you with.
One woman is angry after she’s been pressured to hand over some of his possessions so they can be given to his mistress’s child.
She’s 30-years-old and was married to her husband for six years. Unfortunately, he passed away in an accident a few months ago.
Right before he passed, she found out that her husband had cheated on her with a woman he worked with.
“When he died, I hadn’t decided yet what was going to happen in our relationship,” she explained.
“We entered counseling and were still living together, but obviously, it was hectic. As I wasn’t sure if we were going to divorce, I decided not to tell our families and only confided in a few close friends and my therapist.”
Then, a few weeks ago, she received some shocking news.
The woman, her husband, cheated on her with reached out to her to let her know she was five months pregnant with his child. She also asked for her husband’s family’s information so she and her baby could form a relationship with them.
She wanted no part in this woman’s life, so she simply passed along some of her husband’s family contacts and tried to move on. However, her husband’s family is actually coming around to the idea of having a relationship with his baby and mistress. Although she wants no part in this journey, she accepts they can do what they want.
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Now, his mistress has begun reaching out to her for some of her husband’s possessions, like his clothes, books, and record collection, so that she can pass them on to his child. Then, things got really bad when she asked for his wedding ring as well, so the baby could have it.
“I’ve made it very clear to her that I will be giving her nothing of the sort,” she said.
“His parents and brother have some of his stuff, and she can access things like that through them. She kept pushing, and I lost my temper.”
She told her husband’s mistress she was being outrageous and that she should be ashamed of herself.
She wouldn’t be opposed to passing along a few things of her husband’s down the line, but being rushed into doing it and asked to hand over something like his wedding ring makes her very upset.
“I’ve also retained a lawyer to look into whether I owe the child any money legally from my husband’s passing,” she added.
“If I don’t, I may set up a trust fund for them when they’re an adult with his money because I really don’t need it, and that seems fair. I just do not want to give this woman all I have left of my husband.”
While her husband’s family is mostly on her side, some of them think she should be more open to giving his future child his things. Now, she wonders if she’s being too stubborn and if her grief is clouding her judgment.
Should she hand over her husband’s possessions or be allowed to keep them?
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