If you’re starting to resent your partner or feel angry with them more than you feel love for them, that’s not cool. Why would you want to be with someone who’s constantly disappointing you? Address those feelings quickly and figure out what you can do to move on to a happier place.
You have to beg them for support.
Being in a healthy relationship with someone means being unafraid to ask them for help when you need it. Not only that, but an ideal partner is someone who checks in with you enough to know whether or not you need help. If you’ve developed anxiety around seeking support from your partner, you have standards that must be raised.
You can’t be yourself around them.
Few things are more disappointing and exhausting than hiding your true personality from someone you’re dating or in a relationship with. When you’re in a serious relationship, you should be able to let go and be yourself. Why torture yourself by having to pretend to be someone you’re not?
If some of these signs apply to where you are in your current relationship, it is time to reevaluate what you want from your partner or future partners and raise those standards. You deserve love and respect and shouldn’t have to give more than you get!
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