She’s Not Allowing Her Stepdaughter In Her Home Anymore Because She Discovered Her Stepdaughter Was Spying And Sending Photos To Her Husband’s Ex
This woman and her husband have been married for eight years, and they have two children together– a daughter and a son. She also has a 10-year-old stepdaughter, Ava, from her husband’s previous relationship.
Unfortunately, Ava has struggled with a lot of behavioral issues– including lying and acting out. But she and her husband always worked through them together.
Well, that was until recently when she felt that her stepdaughter totally stepped over the line.
She just found out that Ava had been taking photos of what was going on at her home every day and sending them to her husband’s ex.
“And just overall basically being a spy for her mother in my home. It’s creepy and weird after all these years that her mother would even have an interest in what’s going on in our house,” she explained.
So, she brought up the discovery to her husband, and he went on Ava’s phone to get to the bottom of the situation.
He wound up finding the messages between Ava and his ex, confirming that her stepdaughter had been spying.
This pushed her husband to start texting his ex, and they wound up getting into an argument.
Now, to be clear, she realizes that Ava’s mother is to blame for the spying to a certain extent.
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“I, however, do not feel that it’s solely the mother. I feel that Ava holds a lot of responsibility,” she revealed.
After all, Ava was the person taking photos, sending them, and detailing everything that went on in her house each evening.
That’s why she decided to put her foot down last night and ultimately told her stepdaughter that she wasn’t welcome in her home anymore.
Yes, she knows that her husband is completely entitled to maintain a relationship with his daughter.
“He is absolutely welcome to still have a relationship with his daughter before anyone jumps on the ‘you can’t pull a child away from her father’ scenario,” she said.
In fact, she is completely fine with her husband seeing Ava as much as he wants. She just doesn’t want her stepdaughter in her home.
She wound up telling Ava’s mother this, too, and the woman was upset. But she believes that was just because Ava’s mother lost a spy to keep tabs on what she and her husband are up to.
And she doesn’t think removing her stepdaughter from her home is unfair.
“I don’t feel it’s fair that we should be spied on by a woman I despise, and I don’t trust Ava now. So it’s not a matter of taking her phone away or telling her not to do it, and everything is fixed,” she vented.
Still, in the wake of the situation, she’s not sure if refusing to allow her stepdaughter in her home anymore is the right way to handle this situation.
Who do you think is more to blame– her stepdaughter or her husband’s ex? Do you think her stepdaughter fully understands that the spying was wrong at 10 years old, or is she still young? How would you deal with this?
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