Channel Cool And Mysterious Black Cat Energy To Attract High-Quality Partners: Here’s How

Have you ever heard of “black cat girlfriends” and “golden retriever boyfriends?”
If you didn’t know, these terms are used to describe couples with different personalities that seem to work perfectly together.
A “golden retriever boyfriend” is known for being loyal, friendly, goofy, and loving. A “black cat girlfriend” is a bit more mysterious, quiet, and enjoys being independent, yet is also extremely loyal and loving.
While the term “black cat girlfriend” is often used to describe a woman who is in a relationship, you don’t necessarily have to be in a relationship to channel the cool and mysterious energy of a black cat girl.
In fact, you can use black cat energy to attract your desired partner, and I’ll show you how to do that.
Black cat girls have a cool energy where they’re okay with being on their own, and their happiness and success in life do not revolve around being in a relationship with a man. Before going off into the world of dating, tune in on your black cat energy and focus less on any fears of being alone.
Don’t go into a relationship afraid of what would happen if you were to lose that partner. Instead, look for someone who complements your personality and you’ll enjoy spending time with, versus someone you’ll become dependent on.
Speaking of being dependent, girls with black cat energy tend to value their independence.
Therefore, you’ll want to create some boundaries and distance when dating potential partners. I’m not saying you have to ghost someone for a bit after a few dates, but you don’t want to be constantly texting and calling them.

Victoria Fox – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Remember, there’s nothing wrong with being a bit mysterious to your date, and they might actually like that. This shows that while you’re interested in them, you don’t depend on them to live your life.
Another thing to keep in mind is that because black cat girls are fine on their own, you want to make it clear to your potential partners that you do not live to please them.
Of course, in any loving and healthy relationship, it’s sweet to occasionally do things outside your comfort zone to make your partner happy. However, doing that all the time isn’t very healthy, and it’s certainly not what a black cat would do.
Girls with black cat energy don’t need a man’s validation to feel good about themselves. They walk with confidence on their own. Instead of aiming to please their partners, black cat girlfriends will show acts of love and service that help and comfort their partners.
Again, being a black cat girlfriend is not for everyone, but their energy can be quite useful in finding a respectful, caring, and sophisticated partner.
Have you ever been called a “black cat girlfriend?”
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