He Became A Doctor So His Fiancée Would Want To Be With Him And Isn’t Sure What To Do After Learning She Cheated
Have you ever changed a drastic part of your life in order to be with someone, but they end up breaking your heart anyway?
That’s what happened to one man who became a doctor just so his fiancée would want to be with him and isn’t sure what to do after finding out she cheated on him.
He’s 28 and has been “chasing” after his 27-year-old fiancée for years.
When they first met as teenagers in India, he was immediately smitten with her and knew he wanted to do whatever it took to be with her.
“When I first interacted with her, she made it clear she would only marry a doctor,” he said.
“She had good reasons and a story for it, and I accepted [that].”
Still determined to be with her, he did everything he could to get into medical school and become a doctor. It took him two years after graduating from high school to get into a medical program, and he was more motivated by his future fiancée than the idea of actually being a doctor.
“When I was preparing for entrance [exams], she was just a friend, and she made it clear it was nothing more than friendship,” he explained.
“I didn’t care because I always thought of marrying her eventually. I know this sounds creepy, but it is how my mind works. So when I finally got into medical school, she changed.”
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Eventually, his fiancée agreed to date him while he worked hard to stay in medical school. As he progressed to becoming a doctor, their relationship became stronger, and they met each other’s families.
He is now practicing his residency in dermatology and has been engaged to his fiancée, who pursued an arts degree, for a year.
He finally thought everything was falling into place, but then he noticed that his fiancée had started getting closer to a male colleague.
Then, one day, his fiancée woke up with insect bites on her back, and when she went to his hospital to get them checked out, he discovered her male colleague also had the bug bites and lived in an area where they were common.
This gave him a bad feeling, as he wondered if his fiancée was seeing this colleague outside work and behind his back.
“The next day, I took a break from my shift and followed her when she left [her job],” he recalled.
“For the next three days, I kept doing the same thing. On the 3rd day, I saw her leave with [the male colleague], and I saw them go into his house. My world shattered. I have loved her all my life. I changed my life for her.”
He confronted his fiancée, and she admitted to cheating on him, giving him space to let him figure out what he wanted to do next.
As of right now, he doesn’t want to leave her, especially because it would cause some scandal in his community, but he also can’t get over how she’d break his heart like that after everything he did for her.
Do you think he should leave his fiancée and start fresh?
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