He Wants To Know What Other Coworkers His Girlfriend Has Hooked Up With, But She Doesn’t Think It’s Necessary To Tell Him
This man has been dating a woman he works with for about a year now, and their relationship has been going really well.
They met because they’re employed by the same company, and from the beginning, he knew that his girlfriend had “slept around a bit.”
“In fact, one of my more awful colleagues bragged to me that he had slept with her previously,” he revealed.
Nonetheless, he didn’t really care – because, aside from that crass coworker, he only knew of one other coworker with whom his girlfriend had previously hooked up.
But, more recently, the topic of past relations came up in conversation, and he decided to point-blank ask his girlfriend who else she’d slept with from their company.
At that point, she apparently looked at him in total shock and said she’d rather not discuss that unless it was necessary for “context or otherwise.”
This made him realize that his girlfriend probably thought he would somehow weaponize and use that information against her.
“But it does sound like she may have slept with a good number of others at the company, which I’m kind of surprised I am only learning a year in,” he explained.
“I have been very open about my past partners, romantic or hookups.”
NDABCREATIVITY – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Not to mention, they’re both openly dating in front of their coworkers as opposed to keeping their relationship a secret since their company doesn’t have any rules about romantic relationships in the office.
That’s why he would appreciate a “heads-up” about who else his girlfriend has slept with that he may interact with.
“I haven’t pressed the topic further, but it’s been nagging at me,” he vented.
“It’s not like I’m asking for a list of all her past lovers. Just the people we literally see every day.”
Nonetheless, he’s not sure if wanting to know the other coworkers his girlfriend’s been with is justified or crossing a line.
How would you feel in his shoes? Do you believe he has a right to know or not? What advice would you give him?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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