She’s Thinking Of Exposing Her Boss For Sleeping With Her For Over A Year Because He’s Been Acting Rude Ever Since She Tried To Cut It Off
Most people would agree that getting romantically or physically involved with someone you work with, especially your superior, is a terrible idea. However, some people simply slip up.
One woman has been in a secret, complicated relationship with her boss for a year, and now that he’s started treating her poorly at work, she’s considering telling people about it so that she can expose him.
She’s been working at the same company for five years and is part of a small, close-knit team. Because it’s a small group, she and her coworkers often do things together outside of work.
One year ago, she, her coworkers, and even some of her bosses had an office party with alcohol, and things got a little out of hand.
“Everyone was very drunk, and I ended up sleeping with one of my bosses,” she admitted.
“I was [super] drunk; I couldn’t remember how I got home and wasn’t even sure if it had actually happened until I saw a text from my boss saying, ‘See you tomorrow,’ with a smiley face. I didn’t respond.”
The next day at work, she was terrified about what would happen when she walked into the building, but her boss ended up acting normally, and they both pretended nothing had happened.
That is until the end of the day when he asked her if she was uncomfortable about what went down, and they had to talk about it.
She and her boss decided to brush off the incident as a drunken mistake, but things changed.
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“He continued texting me over the following weeks, confessing that he actually enjoyed that night and had liked me,” she explained.
“Charmed but unsure, we began texting frequently. He was kind, and I started developing feelings for him.”
She and her boss eventually entered a secret relationship they hid from their coworkers. They started going on casual dates, getting dinner and drinks, and continuing to be physical with one another.
However, over time, her boss started behaving differently. He was colder and more demanding at work, which he’d brush off as being busy.
Eventually, her boss only started calling her when he was interested in hooking up, which she didn’t like, as she had developed feelings for him.
“I confronted him and said I didn’t want to continue this friends-with-benefits situation,” she said.
“He did not agree to this being just [physical]. However, he seemed to be taking ‘the breakup’ well. But, he kept texting over time, hoping I would agree to his advances.”
When she started turning her boss down, his behavior at work got worse. He’s been acting rude and weird only toward her, to the point where her coworkers have noticed. Then, he threatened her, telling her he’d fire her if she started causing problems at work.
Now, she’s considering quitting and exposing their out-of-work relationship and his harassment before leaving.
What would you do if you were her?
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