He Offered To Pay For His Sister’s College Tuition, But His Girlfriend Is Upset He’s Not Saving The Money For Their Future Together
This 27-year-old man has a younger sister named Emily, who’s 19-years-old and has always been very ambitious.
So, it wasn’t a shock when she got into a great college after graduating high school. The only problem? Their parents couldn’t afford to help pay Emily’s tuition.
“They’ve had financial issues for years, and while they’ve tried their best, it’s been tough,” he said.
“I’ve been working a stable job in tech for a few years now, and I’ve saved up quite a bit.”
Back when Emily got her acceptance letter, she was initially ecstatic about heading off to college. Yet, as she realized just how much her schooling would cost, reality started to sink in.
His sister did begin researching part-time jobs and loans she could take out for her studies. However, he knew affording her tuition would still be tough for her, which is why he wanted to help.
More specifically, he offered to just pay for Emily’s college tuition.
“She was incredibly grateful, and our parents were relieved,” he recalled.
However, one person wasn’t super happy about his newfound financial commitment – his 26-year-old girlfriend, Sarah.
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For some context, he and Sarah have been dating for three years now, and they are planning a future together. That’s why they’ve discussed goals such as buying a home and starting a family together.
Given this, Sarah believed that he should save his money for their own future as opposed to funding his sister’s college.
“I get her point,” he admitted, “But Emily’s education is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and I couldn’t let her miss out because of money.”
He tried telling his girlfriend that, too, but she’s still angry at him and thinks he’s not prioritizing their relationship’s future.
He, on the other hand, believes that helping his sister out doesn’t mean he’s not committed to their future plans.
“I can still save and plan with Sarah, but Emily’s need is immediate and crucial,” he reasoned.
“I love Sarah and want a future with her, but I also want to support my sister in achieving her dreams.”
Now, this has left him wondering how to balance both his girlfriend’s and his sister’s needs without feeling like he is “failing” either of them.
Can you understand why he wants to help his sister? Does his girlfriend have valid concerns or not? What advice would you give him?
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