Her Coworker’s Seeing A Guy Who She Thinks Gives Off Stalker Vibes, And She Wants Her Coworker To Block Him
Sometimes, when you’re in the thick of dating and searching for that special someone, it can be hard to spot dealbreakers and red flags – no matter how glaring they are.
That’s why friends are valuable resources, providing a fresh set of eyes and a new perspective on whether a potential partner is good to go or a huge “no.”
One 35-year-old woman feels like her input on a guy her coworker recently began seeing could be helpful as well. But she’s not sure if she should pitch in her two cents.
To set the scene, her colleague, Vanessa, is 23-years-old, and they’ve become very close friends while working together. Vanessa also started seeing a guy named Jeffrey, who’s 26, and the pair went out on a few dates together.
In the beginning, everything seemed to be going great, which is why her coworker went on a second date with Jeffrey. Yet, during that next outing, he did something pretty weird.
“He asked Vanessa if she was the ‘jealous type,’ and when she said no, he pulled out his phone and went onto her Instagram and found one of her female friends,” she detailed.
Next, Jeffrey proceeded to scroll through Vanessa’s friend’s photos, liking all of them in front of her to see Vanessa’s reaction.
Her coworker was understandably confused by his behavior and had no clue why he’d do that. So, once their second date ended, Vanessa went home and blocked Jeffrey’s number.
“Jeffrey then started creating new accounts on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, and LinkedIn to message her to ‘apologize,'” she revealed.
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Well, rather than being weirded out by his obsessiveness, her coworker actually unblocked Jeffrey and went out on another date with him.
During that third date, he also admitted to sending a card to Vanessa’s home address and asked whether her coworker had forgiven him because of that.
Now, she didn’t find out about all of this until just yesterday – when Vanessa came into work and filled her in on everything.
Some of her other colleagues apparently thought it was sweet that Jeffrey had put in so much effort to get a second chance.
“Whereas the rest of us think it gives off stalker vibes with bright red flags,” she explained.
So, she is genuinely considering telling Vanessa to block the guy and get the police involved if he continues trying to contact her. However, she’s not sure if that would cross a line and make her a jerk.
Do you think that she has a right to be concerned about Jeffrey? Should she tell Vanessa what she thinks or keep her opinion to herself? What would you do in her shoes?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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