She Doesn’t Want Her Fiancé’s Little Brother At Her Wedding Because He Secretly Recorded Her In The Bathroom, But Her Fiancé And His Family Think She Needs To Get Over It

farmuty - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
farmuty - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 22-year-old woman from Texas is currently engaged, but last September, her fiancé’s little brother – who was 15 years old at the time – did the unthinkable. While she was using the restroom and taking a shower, he actually recorded her under the bathroom door.

Her fiancé’s little brother wound up seeing her in an extremely vulnerable state, and obviously, she was not aware and didn’t give him permission.

“I found out while I was still in the shower due to seeing the light on his [freaking] school Chromebook that he was using to record me with,” she recalled.

Afterward, she contacted the police, and her fiancé’s brother is now being charged with a State Jail Felony. Since then, there has not been an official ruling, but the next court date is set to take place in September of this year.

In the wake of what happened, she understandably didn’t want to be around her fiancé’s brother, either, since he made her super uncomfortable. And now that her wedding is approaching in October, she made it crystal clear to her fiancé that she didn’t want his brother to attend the event.

Plus, she pointed out how the rest of her family didn’t want him there, either, and she really thought her fiancé understood that.

Well, when she reached out to her soon-to-be mother-in-law, asking her to RSVP on their wedding website, a ton of drama ensued.

Her mother-in-law realized that her fiancé’s brother’s name was not on the guest list. Then, her fiancé received a text from his mom, who tried to claim that his little brother was still family.

“Also, his dad was supposed to officiate the wedding, and he texted my fiancé a day after his mom had brought this up and said that he would not marry us because of everything going on – meaning the charges and not allowing their son at the wedding,” she explained.

farmuty – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Still, she cannot believe that her in-laws expect her fiancé’s brother to be invited to her big day. Her fiancé seemingly agrees with them, too.

Just a few weeks ago, for instance, her future father-in-law made a remark about how she “really needed to get over it already.” At the time, all her fiancé responded was, “Yeah, well,” basically agreeing with him.

It’s really frustrating for her that her fiancé hasn’t been on her side throughout all of this, and she’s genuinely considering calling off their engagement over it.

“I’m 22 and have been with this guy for almost four years, but I’m not sure if I’m ready for a life of misery with his parents,” she vented.

“I’m just thinking that the next conversation I have with him will be that he needs to be 100% supportive of me, or I’ll call it all off.”

However, before she gives her fiancé that ultimatum, she can’t help but wonder if it’s really so crazy that she doesn’t want his little brother at their nuptials.

How would you feel in her shoes? Would you want your partner’s little sibling there if they did something like that? 

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Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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