She Had No Clue That Her Boyfriend Was Married And Dumped Him As Soon As She Found Out, But His Wife Kept Badmouthing Her And Calling Her A Homewrecker
Just a few months ago, this woman met her boyfriend, and she thought she was getting into a real relationship.
They immediately “clicked,” and she found him fun and charming. As a bonus, he seemed super into her.
“We started seeing each other, and everything was great… until it wasn’t,” she recalled.
A few months after they began dating, she made a shocking realization – the guy was actually married!
She was completely caught off guard because he’d hidden his marriage incredibly well. Even so, she felt very dumb for not figuring out he was a cheater sooner.
She also immediately called off their relationship, but her boyfriend continued trying to get back together with her after that.
Eventually, the guy’s wife learned about his infidelity as well, and she was absolutely livid – which she completely understood.
“But instead of confronting him or holding him accountable, she turned her rage on me,” she revealed.
All of a sudden, his wife began badmouthing her online and calling her a home-wrecker, despite the fact that she really didn’t know her boyfriend was married. This led people to start sending her angry messages and calling her all sorts of names.
satyrenko – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Still, the most shocking part was that her boyfriend’s wife actually took him back after the cheating! At the same time, he kept attempting to contact her, even after she blocked him.
“It’s like they both wanted to make my life miserable, and I was completely done with both of them,” she said.
Just last night, the situation finally came to a head, too. While she was just out to dinner with some friends, her boyfriend’s wife walked in and stormed over upon seeing her. Next, his wife began berating her in front of everybody – calling her a terrible person and accusing her of ruining their marriage.
At first, she truly tried to remain calm. Yet, as things escalated, she couldn’t keep her mouth shut anymore and finally snapped.
“Maybe if you could satisfy your husband, he wouldn’t have had to come running to me,” she told his wife.
She realized that her statement was harsh, but she was sick and tired of getting blamed for her boyfriend’s choices. Anyway, the wife wound up bursting into tears and fleeing the restaurant. And in the wake of what happened, she feels like she might’ve gone too far.
“I know she’s hurt, and maybe I shouldn’t have said something so cruel, but at the same time, I was done being her punching bag,” she vented.
Her friends, on the other hand, had mixed reactions. Some of them believe her boyfriend’s wife got what she deserved, while others thought she should have just been the bigger person and ignored her.
Now, she can’t help but wonder whether telling off her boyfriend’s wife like that was really such a jerky move.
Is it right for people to attack those their partners cheat with if they seriously didn’t know about the infidelity? Could she have handled this incident better?
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