He Broke Up With His Girlfriend And Kicked Her Out After She Abandoned Him At A Male Coworker’s Party, Went To The Guy’s House, And Didn’t Get Home Until Early The Next Morning
This 24-year-old guy and his girlfriend Anne, who’s 23, first started dating in college. But recently, one of her male coworkers named Joe sparked a huge rift in their relationship.
For some context, she’d talked about her coworker in the past and seemed to have a lot in common with him, particularly when it came to music. Joe is even an amateur musician and has a pretty successful YouTube channel.
So, just last week, Anne was invited to a party Joe was throwing, and he initially didn’t make the guest list. Then, his girlfriend asked if he could tag along, and Joe supposedly said that was fine.
Joe hosted the event at a restaurant he’d rented out, and around 30 people were there. The party was on Saturday night, and at first, the evening started off well.
“Towards the end, though, I wandered into Anne’s little discussion group, and I immediately got the feeling that nobody really wanted me there, most of all Anne,” he recalled.
“It was her, Joe, and a few other people.”
At the time, he figured he was just overreacting and proceeded to hang around for a bit. Meanwhile, Joe just kept gloating about himself basically the entire time.
He eventually decided to wander off, grab a drink, and chat with some other people after that. However, once the party was dying down, he tried to find his girlfriend, but she wasn’t there.
Rather, Joe actually walked up to him and claimed to be throwing an after-party at his house. He was going to turn down the offer, yet before he could even respond, Joe had the nerve to “clap him” on the shoulder and say, “Sorry, man, but only Anne is invited.”
ALIDA – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
He quickly told Joe not to touch him and stated that his girlfriend wouldn’t be attending the after-party. To his surprise, Joe replied that Anne had already accepted the invitation.
This pushed him to text his girlfriend right away, asking where she was, and she simply texted back, “Sorry, on the way to Joe’s place. I’ll see you tomorrow. Love you!”
He tried asking whether she knew that he wasn’t invited, and Anne had the nerve to leave him on “read.” She ignored all of his other texts that night.
So, he left Joe’s party absolutely livid and stayed up the entire evening. His girlfriend didn’t arrive home until 5:42 a.m.
“I know because I was by the window watching. I recognized the car as Joe’s and the driver to be Joe. Nobody else was in the car. Anne waved to him cutely and laughed at something he said,” he explained.
Once his girlfriend walked in the door, she seemed shocked that he was still awake, too. He, on the other hand, didn’t waste any time and broke up with her on the spot.
On top of that, he made it clear that she needed to move out by the end of the day.
“Anne was, at first, confused with me, and then I told her that she can just move in with Joe,” he detailed.
She just rolled her eyes at that and swore nothing happened between them. She also gave him a speech about his insecurities and how his imagination was running rampant.
Regardless, he didn’t care about any of that, and after some more back-and-forth fighting, Anne finally accepted that they were splitting up.
Still, she sarcastically thanked him for “wasting the best years of her life.”
As of yesterday, she has officially moved out of his place, and the whole thing ended quite dramatically. Anne stated that she loved him and accused him of throwing away their whole relationship over a party.
Now, in the wake of their breakup, he can’t help but wonder if he made the right decision.
“Did I do her wrong here? I feel like I’m getting gaslit,” he vented.
How would you feel if your partner left you at a party like that? Do you think something happened between his girlfriend and Joe?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
Sign up for Chip Chick’s newsletter and get stories like this delivered to your inbox.
More About:Relationships