5 Zodiac Signs Most Likely To Sabotage Love And Relationships

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Some People Struggle When It Comes To Love

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The following column is the opinion and analysis of the writer. Even under the very best circumstances, relationships are still challenging.

And while everyone brings their own set of strengths and weaknesses to the table, certain zodiac signs are just more prone to behaviors that undermine connection and trust.

Here Are 5 Zodiac Signs Most Likely To Sabotage Love And Relationships

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That doesn’t necessarily mean they’re bad partners or incapable of love. It simply means their natural tendencies or emotional patterns make forming and sustaining a healthy relationship more difficult.

So, whether it’s a fear of vulnerability or a need to control, here are the five signs most likely to sabotage relationships and push love away, even when they want it most.

1. Gemini

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Geminis are ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, which gives them a natural charm and quick wit. But beneath their sociable surface lies a duality that can make romantic relationships with them seriously confusing.

One moment, a Gemini could be fully present, affectionate, and acting all-in with their partner. Then, they might emotionally retreat and act distant the next minute.

This hot-and-cold behavior isn’t intentionally malicious. Nonetheless, it can leave you feeling uncertain or like you’ve been the victim of emotional whiplash.

2. Scorpio

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Scorpios feel intensely, yet they rarely show it on the surface. So, even though their loyalty and emotional nature make them powerful partners, those same traits can become challenging when fear or insecurity creeps in.

This sign often struggles with trust, leading Scorpios to push their partners away and create distance as a form of self-protection or to test their faithfulness. In other words, instead of getting hurt, they could either build up emotional walls or start acting controlling to, well, stay in control. Plus, when Scorpios feel betrayed, they hold onto that resentment.

Still, it’s worth underscoring that they don’t sabotage relationships because they don’t care. On the contrary, they care deeply and are just afraid of what might happen if they fully let their guard down.

3. Virgo

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Virgos are thoughtful perfectionists, but their analytical nature can sometimes backfire. In relationships, they may obsess over little details, point out flaws, or try to “fix” things that aren’t actually broken. To you, this can come across as critical or demanding.

By over-analyzing instead of simply allowing life to unfold, this sign creates tension and, sometimes, unrealistic expectations.

Deep down, Virgos want to protect themselves and/or their partner, but the pressure for things to be perfect can end up driving love away.

4. Aquarius

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Aquarians are known for being independent and forward-thinking, and those qualities can infuse refreshing energy into a relationship. However, they also have a strong need for personal freedom, which may make them seem aloof or unavailable.

This sign usually likes to process their feelings logically as opposed to emotionally. So, if an Aquarian dates a more expressive person, misunderstandings can crop up.

Perhaps they avoid difficult conversations or retreat when things get too intense. Not to mention, their idealistic nature can create other unrealistic expectations, and when a relationship doesn’t match their exact vision, they walk away instead of working through issues as a team.

5. Sagittarius

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Last but certainly not least is Sagittarius, a sign that thrives on adventure and new experiences. They offer energy and optimism, but they also hate anything that ties them down.

Sagittarians are often afraid of commitment, fearing that it will force them to give up their freedom. In turn, they might pull away or avoid going past the surface level.

It’s easy to mistake a Sagittarian’s restlessness for disinterest, even when they do care. Just keep in mind that they do value love. So, the reason they might sabotage a relationship is that they value their autonomy so much that they end up creating emotional distance without even realizing it.

Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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