She Revealed A Secret To Her Brother And Now She’s Telling The Internet She’s Being Accused Of Ruining Her Father’s Whole Family
A 23-year-old woman says that her mom and dad ended their marriage and separated prior to her even having been born.
Her dad cheated on her mom, and that’s why things ended between them. Their divorce was ugly, and her dad hounded her mom for several DNA tests to confirm he was her dad.
Her dad suspected he was getting duped into paying money to support her, and so he clearly made her mom’s life miserable after he was technically no longer a part of it.
Over the course of her childhood, she really never spoke to or met up with her dad and the family he went on to have afterward since her mom was granted full custody.
She never realized how terrible things had really been between her mom and her dad as a child, but eventually, she found out what had really happened.
She also never knew that she had any siblings, but when she turned 15, she learned that she did have siblings and she attempted to contact them.
“On the rare occasions I was allowed to visit, I was always treated coldly by my stepmother and my father,” she explained.
“It was difficult to get closer to my siblings because of how rarely I saw them. I was fine with that as long as it didn’t seem like my siblings hated me.”
Well, not that long ago she got to spend some time with her brother, who is 20, and he told her something that she found incredibly shocking.
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Apparently, her dad and her stepmom had been lying to her siblings all along, and that’s why they didn’t want much to do with her over the years.
“While we were talking, he accidentally let slip that my father and step-mother had been telling my siblings that my mother was the one who came between their marriage,” she said.
“They told them that my mother was a jealous ex who kept hounding them when they were happily married. I was out of my mind with anger.”
She had proof to counter that, and what her dad and stepmom had gone around lying about, and she presented the proof to her brother.
She revealed the truth to him; that her dad cheated on her mom with her stepmom and that was the real reason why the marriage between her parents ended.
Her brother didn’t want to accept what she was saying, so he got angry and ended up leaving. She was left thinking that she had destroyed her connection with him, and she was upset about that, however, the following day that all changed.
Her brother phoned her to say that he had taken the information she had given him and challenged his parents on what the truth really was.
Her dad and stepmom did end up telling her brother that what they had maintained all along was nothing but a lie, and he blew up on them over it.
Her brother arrived at her house and made it clear he’s no longer going to speak to his parents ever again for what they did.
Her 21-year-old sister found out about the truth too and she is also threatening to stay at college and not come home to visit them.
Although her older siblings are on her side and are angry about having been lied to, her 18-year-old brother thinks his parents are not in the wrong.
Her younger brother is of the opinion that the truth she told has destroyed his family. Her mom eventually got sucked into all of this, and her mom believes she does owe everyone an apology.
Her father’s family is accusing her of revealing the truth only because she’s resentful of her life, but the reality is she was livid about the lie.
“I thought I was justified, but now I feel like I made my siblings’ life more difficult,” she continued.
“I don’t want them to ruin their relationship with their parents, and it’s not like I was forced to tell them about it, I just wanted to clear my mom’s name.”
She’s left wondering if it would have been best for her to have not said anything at all, and she’s worried she should have just kept that secret to herself.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Put the blame where it belongs: on your father and stepmother. If they had not lied, this situation would not exist.”
“But badmouthing your mother was more important than the truth and they are reaping the consequences.”
“Whether your siblings decide to forgive their parents, is their choice. You have no responsibility for their reactions.”
“You didn’t make your father cheat, and you didn’t make him and the mistress lie about it to their children. All you did was report the facts.”
“If they want to be angry and embarrassed, they can start with their own s*** behavior…and they can reap the stupid prizes from their own stupid games.”
“Your father and stepmother chose to lie and now their lie is catching up to them. I do feel bad for the kids, as they’re innocent in this.”
“Why parents think their lies will never catch up to them is beyond me but they made their bed and can lie in it.”
“Cheaters never prosper. It’s an old phrase but covers what’s gone on here. Eventually, a lie will be uncovered and it’s nobody’s job to be lied about because these people didn’t want to face their own actions.”
“I’d like to add that you didn’t know how your brother would react and have no say as to his actions. That’s on him. Your siblings will find a way to deal with the situation.”
“I am, however, disappointed at your mother’s reaction. She should absolutely be siding with and backing you up.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say here.
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