He Asked His Fiancée To Sign A Prenup And It Seems Like She’s Going To Be Calling Off Their Wedding Over It
A 29-year-old man is currently engaged to his 25-year-old fiancée, and they have been with one another for 4 years.
He and his fiancée have had a great relationship since they started seeing one another, and it only took him a few months of dating her to know that she was the woman he wanted to spend his entire life with.
He asked her to marry him a few months ago, and they are currently in the middle of planning their wedding.
“Now that we are preparing for the wedding, I asked her to sign a prenup, just in case,” he explained.
“At first, she thought I was joking, but I told her that I was serious. My side of the family is fairly rich, and I wanted to protect my assets.”
“She got mad at me and asked me if I thought that she was a gold digger, to which I obviously said no.”
The reason he really wants her to sign a prenup is that he has unfortunately witnessed women that have gone through the divorce process that leave their husbands with nothing.
Within his own family, he also has seen this play out with bad results for the men in his family that have money, and he never wants to have this be his life story.
He did sit down and tell his fiancée about his fears, though she accused him of getting ready to get divorced before they even tie the knot.
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Obviously, he doesn’t want to get divorced; he just wants to protect himself against the unknown, and he doesn’t get why she is so against his wishes.
His fiancée then said he probably should not even go through with the wedding if he believes there is any chance of her taking everything he owns down the line.
He feels his fiancée is blowing things way out of proportion here, and if she really didn’t want to take anything away from him, she would have no issue with signing a prenup in the first place.
“She said that I should find another woman who’s rich so that I know she’s not after my money. Then she left the house and hasn’t come back since,” he said.
He discussed what happened with his family members, and they all think he’s not in the wrong at all for asking about a prenup.
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However, his fiancée’s brother called him up after this all went down, and her brother thinks that he’s a terrible person.
Her brother also let him know that she most likely will cancel the wedding entirely.
“My family thinks that I should break it off with her as well and that I dodged a bullet,” he continued.
He really doesn’t know how to proceed in light of everything that has happened and the conflicting feedback he’s receiving from his family vs. his fiancée’s brother.
How would you deal with this?
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