Her Boyfriend Keeps Taking Money Out Of Her Cash Box And Now She No Longer Trusts Him
A 25-year-old woman has a 25-year-old boyfriend that she has been with for 7 years now.
She works as a waitress, and she does get paid a lot in cash. Since she can’t always get to the bank, she has a cash box where she keeps all of her money, and the box is inside of her dresser where she also keeps jewelry.
Unfortunately, her boyfriend has gone through this cash box of hers to take out money several times now, and she no longer trusts him.
“The first time happened about three years ago, my bf paid for my stuff at some store and when we got to my house, he went into my box and took out what I owed him,” she explained.
“It really rubbed the wrong way. I told him I didn’t like how he did that, especially since I wasn’t in the room with him.”
She was extremely upset about what he did, and he wound up apologizing for simply taking money out of her cash box without asking her first.
Her boyfriend promised that it would never happen again, but he didn’t keep that promise.
Several months ago, they moved in together, and around that time her boyfriend brought up the fact that he went into the box again and took some of her money, but he maintained that he would get money to pay her back later when he got cash.
“Again, I got super mad and told him not to do that and that I’ve asked him before not to that like way long ago in our relationship. He said he was sorry and wouldn’t do it again,” she said.
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Then yesterday, when she got home from her double shift, she walked into her bedroom and saw the drawer to her dresser was left open, and that’s where her box of cash is.
She confronted her boyfriend, who insisted he only went into the box to exchange cash that he had for smaller bills.
She made it clear to him that it wasn’t that he hadn’t taken money from her; it was that he went through the box several times without asking her and that’s the major issue.
“I don’t trust him and I really want to pretend like this isn’t a giant red flag,” she continued. “I can’t help but think accidentally leaving the drawer open was a sign.”
“But I don’t want to take that sign. We have a cat together. I love our apartment. I love not living with my family.”
She really has no idea where to go from here.
You can read her original post on Reddit here.
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