Her Husband’s Ex-Girlfriend Accused Her Of Stealing Her Life And She’s Asking The Internet If Maybe She Shouldn’t Have Yelled At Her
A 28-year-old woman is married to her husband, who is one year older than her. She’s been with her husband for 4 years, and they have a 2-year-old daughter.
The crazy thing here is that her husband’s 29-year-old ex cannot get over the fact that they broke up, although it has now been 5 years since they were together.
She originally met her husband 6 months after he and his ex split.
“She went through a lot of lengths to break us up and absolutely lost it when we announced our engagement,” she explained about her husband’s ex.
“She showed up to our wedding in a white wedding dress and we later found out it was because my MIL had invited her as her plus 1.”
“I tried to ignore it to keep the peace until she tried to pour wine on my wedding dress. I lost it at that and kicked her out.”
After their disastrous wedding day, she hasn’t really spoken to her mother-in-law at all, and she and her husband only talk to her a bit for the sake of their daughter.
“His ex-girlfriend is still bitter about him breaking up with her and she sometimes does things like follow me to the grocery store or follow my husband and I to our date nights,” she said.
Anyway, for Thanksgiving this year, she invited her mother-in-law over to their house, and she was pretty surprised to see that her mother-in-law brought along her husband’s ex.
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She tried her best to be nice, and she made up an extra place at their dinner table for her husband’s ex because she wasn’t about to be mean.
“Everything went well until my daughter woke up from her nap before dinner and his ex raced to pick her up,” she continued.
“I was behind her and as she picked her up she began saying things like “mamas here baby don’t worry mama is here for you” and I felt very uncomfortable.”
“I then attempted to take my daughter and she wouldn’t let her go and said I should let her have a few seconds in the life she had stolen from her.”
That was it for her; she absolutely couldn’t keep putting on a nice face and she freaked out on her husband’s ex.
She kicked her husband’s ex out of their house and told her she was not invited to return.
She doesn’t feel bad at all for putting her husband’s ex in her place, but her mother-in-law ripped her a new one and stormed out after the incident.
Her mother-in-law then riled up some of her husband’s cousins and aunts, and they all think she’s awful for what she did so she’s beginning to be upset about things.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Like really girl, she showed up to your wedding in a white dress and you wanted to keep the peace?”
“Your MIL just brings his psycho ex over for Thanksgiving and you try to find her a spot because you don’t want to be rude?”
“Please respect yourself more. Stand up for yourself. You should not have to just sit back and allow this kind of behavior. ”
“…You (and your husband) should have addressed this a long time ago. MIL needs to be cut off because she is as demented as the ex.”
“Having her near your child is in no one’s best interests. Particularly not your child’s. And whenever the ex does something like follow you, call the police. Every time.”
“Get a restraining order. Also, any family that thinks any of this is OK can be cut off too.”
“The ex sounds like she’s a bit off her rocker – and the family sounds toxic for keeping her around and letting her interfere in your married life.”
“Chewing her out was the right thing to do, the woman obviously needs some boundaries because you do not go to Thanksgiving at an ex’s and you do not pick up somebody else’s baby unless you know them well and know they’d be okay with it.”
“I think you are a little bit to blame for trying to be accommodating to the family and ex when its obvious firmer boundaries are needed so from now on you need to make it clear to your mil that the ex is not to come to your house, to not be invited to things where your family will be, or you will shut the door on both their faces.”
“YOU are his wife, YOU are the mother of her grandchild and she needs to accept that and stop bringing the ex in or there will be consequences – she let an unhinged woman hold your child – this is a safety matter as well.”
“Cut your MIL out. Stop being polite when she turns up. Seriously I’d speak to the police about a restraining order.”
“Your husband needs to be very clear with his mother that if she ever pulls a stunt like that again she’ll never see her granddaughter. Wow. ”
“You should have stood your ground a long time ago. I’m curious as to where your husband is in all of this.”
“Have you just not mentioned his reactions or is he not reacting? In regards to the MIL she needs to go unless she also cuts contact with the ex and does some heavy groveling.”
“In terms of the ex she now knows where you live; get a restraining order or some security cameras I hope she doesn’t come for your daughter.”
“The mama’s here comment is not just over the line I was hearing alarm bells. Keep this woman away from your family.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say here.
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