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His Girlfriend’s Friends Always Expect Him To Pay For Them When They Hang Out And He’s Asking The Internet If He’s A Jerk For Refusing To Do This Going Forward

“She could see them any night so why date night? This might sound mean but personally, I’d test the group.”

“Arrange a night out with them all but then you pull out. See if they all still go out, that could tell you a lot about them all. Also, what do her friends do for jobs? Could they afford to pay for themselves?”

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“Bridget is treating you like an ATM. If she wants her friends to feel welcome, she can pay for them.”

“Take a long, hard look at your relationship. It sounds like she is taking advantage of you. Do you really feel loved? Respected? Important?”

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“No offense but are you sure you want to be involved in the relationship?! It sounds as though she cares more about her friends than your relationship.”

“She uses date night as an excuse to hang out with her friends and instantly assumes you will happily pay for everyone.”

“Now that you have mentioned not doing it, she is more concerned with what her friends will think of her.”

“If you want to really test the relationship, ask her to pay the bills for her friends from now on and see what happens (Spoiler: She will break up with you)!”

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