The Girl That He’s Been Seeing For The Last 6 Months Definitely Just Tried To Baby Trap Him
A 27-year-old guy has been seeing a 29-year-old woman for the last 6 months, and their relationship was going really well…until recently.
His girlfriend loves watching scary movies, she has a great sense of humor, she always teaches him something new, and she’s very excited about their relationship.
All of this makes him feel great about her and being with her. “However—I always knew she was a little unhinged,” he explained.
“On our first date, she explained to me she was born into a cult for the majority of her life being free of it at 22yrs old now 29 she’s a well-adjusted adult.”
“She also told me she’s been engaged 3 different times the last one ending a year ago. We discussed our careers me being a Software Engineer & most recently purchasing property becoming a Landlord.”
“I told her being poor as a youth I strive to have a lucrative career as well as generate passive income so that my children/wife never want for anything. She told me she was a Case Worker.”
Well, he then found out after dating her for several months that she straight-up lied to him about what she does for a career.
She’s not a Case Worker at all; she’s a driver for Uber Eats. He was upset that she chose to lie to him, and she maintained she only told him that lie because she was humiliated to tell him about what she really did for a living.
He was able to move past this and continued seeing her. They spent New Year’s together and had a nice dinner out before hanging out back at her place.
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On New Year’s, she dropped a bombshell on him and revealed that she has fantasies about getting pregnant and it really turns her on to not practice safety along with intimacy.
Before this revelation, they always practiced safety, though this night he thought it would be ok to agree to skip out on this since she promised to take a morning-after pill.
“I was hesitant but said sure it’s a deal,” he said. “After she states “I’m not taking it” I asked why and she very coldly said “eh..don’t feel like it,” I told her that’s not okay and we had an agreement.”
“I didn’t feel respected I didn’t feel like I was someone she cared about. I felt conned and uncomfortable.”
His girlfriend then filled him on the fact that she lied about having the morning-after pill on hand even though she insisted it was right in her dresser drawer.
He was so angry with her that he left her place, but not before letting her know that if she does wind up pregnant he’s not sure what he will do and it’s going to really hurt his future.
“She laughed and said, “oh well..you know where the door is.” At this point, her behavior is completely unrecognizable from the woman I’ve been dating almost like a switch flipped and now I’m dealing with someone else,” he continued.
It has been weeks since this happened, and he hasn’t spoken to her at all during that time.
“Since then she calls me 37 times a day from various numbers, harasses me on social medial, has shown up at my home & my property multiple times,” he added.
His girlfriend has been accusing him of being immature, weak, and manipulative. His girlfriend also seems to believe that he’s blowing things out of proportion.
He really doesn’t know what he should do about her, as she’s so very different than the woman he thought he was seeing.
He also is hoping she’s not pregnant…
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