She Found Another Woman’s Hair In The Bathroom Of The Guy She Was Seeing: After She Confronted Him He Ghosted Her
A 30-year-old woman was dating a guy 6 years older than her for the past 2 months, and at the beginning of things, this guy was all in.
He was coming in hot initially, though lately, she thought that he was not as into her and he has been growing more distant.
Although this guy insisted his career was getting in the way, he still was sending her text messages every single day.
Despite the frequency of his texts, he wanted to get together with her just one time each week, which was less frequent than how things had been between them.
It definitely sounds like something has been up, or perhaps he has been losing interest, and her worst fears were confirmed when she went to his place last weekend.
As she was in this guy’s bathroom on Saturday, she spotted another woman’s hair in his bathroom sink. Now, her hair is blonde, and these hairs were dark and quite long, so they had to be female.
She figured it all looked like a woman had definitely brushed her hair in front of the sink, but..it wasn’t her.
“I didn’t say anything right away because I didn’t want to make a fuss,” she explained. “I brought it up on Sunday, and explained that I wasn’t seeing anyone else, so it hurt to see.”
“He ignored me for 12 hours, then replied, “I don’t respond well to baseless accusations.” I know he has a bit of an ego, so I let him cool off.”
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“By Wednesday I was distraught. I crafted a really gentle text- I explained how I felt about him, explained that I just wanted to see where he was at, and I apologized for offending him.”
30 seconds after she sent this well-crafted text to him, he replied by letting her know his friend had a family member pass away and he had to go to the funeral.
She sent him a follow-up to say that was sad to hear, but he never answered. It’s been 5 days since that and she has not heard from him at all.
She’s beginning to believe that he ghosted her and won’t reach out to her ever again.
“I am devastated,” she said. “I can’t focus on work, I can’t sleep. All I do is stare at my phone waiting for him to reply. I made myself so vulnerable. I don’t understand how a person can just not reply.”
“He is the first person I’ve really liked since my ex. He’s the first person I’ve spent the night with since my ex (in September 2019).”
“We talked so much about what we wanted in the future (marriage, babies, etc). We’ve spent like… 100 hours cuddling. I’m heartbroken.”
She doesn’t want to accept that this could be it, and the end of them, but she’s thinking that’s reality.
Do you think she should keep trying to reach out to him?
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