Her Boyfriend’s Sister Ruined Her Bridesmaid Dress, So She Flipped Out On Her And Now Her Boyfriend’s Family Is Berating Her For How She Handled Things

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berezko - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purpose only, not the actual person

A 26-year-old girl and her 27-year-old boyfriend named Mike have been dating for the last 4 years, and 2 years ago, they moved in together.

6 years ago, Mike tragically lost his dad in a car accident, and it was incredibly difficult on Mike and the rest of his family.

Mike and his mom took their grief and began working out like crazy, while Mike’s 26-year-old sister Kate went the opposite way and dealt with her grief through food.

“Before you think I’m being rude, his sister is way over 400lbs,” she explained. “She has health issues and trouble walking “long” periods. When we try to help her, she tells us we are exaggerating and trying to project our own insecurities onto her.”

“I’ve always been on the thinner side, wearing xs/s clothing. I work out, eat healthy, but of course, have plenty of cheat days. I would also like to mention Mike’s mom will sometimes borrow my sweatshirts.”

“And one day, when I came home from work (a month ago), Kate was in our room with a pile of ripped clothes next to her. She said since I’m letting her mom borrow clothes, I had to do the same for her.”

The thing is, though, Mike’s mom will only borrow some of her sweatshirts, and that’s it. She was so hurt that Kate entered her house without asking and destroyed her clothes while she was out.

Kate insisted her clothes were bad quality anyway, and she was not the reason why they had all gotten ripped.

She informed Kate that she was not permitted to come into her house without asking, and it also was not ok for her to borrow her clothes.

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Kate was upset for several days after that, but then everything died down.

2 days ago, Kate and Mike’s mom came over for dinner, and the night was going quite well.

Kate then got up to go to the bathroom, and she spent quite a bit of time in there, so they all thought it would be good to make sure she was ok.

Kate wasn’t in the bathroom when they found her. Instead, she was in their bedroom holding onto her bridesmaid dress, which had been ripped right in half.

Her best friend’s wedding is happening in Hawaii in less than one week, and she couldn’t believe Kate destroyed her dress.

“When she saw me she said I really need to stop buying such poor quality clothing,” she said. “I was so mad, the wedding is in a week, and my dress was ruined.”

“I looked at her and started yelling. I told her we weren’t the same size and to stop thinking we are and that she needs to realize she’s not healthy and needs help. She started crying, pushed past me, and drove home.”

“Mike and his mom heard everything and told me I had every right to be upset and that what she did was not okay.”

The morning after this all happened, Kate and Mike’s aunts and grandparents called her and texted her to berate her for flipping out on Kate.

“They told me I’m an insecure brat and it’s a good thing their dad wasn’t with us anymore because he would be ashamed Mike was with me,” she continued.

“I was hurt; I always wished I could meet him and never expected to hear that from his family.”

She’s now rushing to find a new bridesmaid dress while wondering if she is a jerk for screaming at Kate.

Would you have screamed at Kate, too, over this?

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