His Girlfriend Dumped Him, Moved To Canada To Enjoy The Single Life, And Now Wants Him Back, But He’s Not Sure He Wants To Be With Her
A 29-year-old guy began dating his 29-year-old girlfriend 6 years ago, and they both met while they were in college.
Their entire relationship over the years has been pretty great, but then a couple of weeks ago, his girlfriend blindsided him when she dumped him.
He really couldn’t believe she had ended things, and she claimed that she needed to move to Canada to enjoy the single life and also spend time with her family.
The entire week after she said she was leaving him, he thought it was some sick prank that she was playing on him.
But then, she packed up her belongings, and she did move to Canada, just like she had said she was going to do.
After she did leave, she took him off her social media profiles, and she didn’t text him or reach out to him at all.
Two weeks after his girlfriend moved, which was last Saturday, she followed him again on social media before sending him a text asking if they could chat.
He did agree to speak to her over the phone, and what she had to say was pretty eye-opening for him.
“We hopped on a call where she told me she has made a mistake and wanted to rekindle, move back to NYC and live with me,” he explained.
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“Throughout the call, I was silent because I had no words, as I was (still am) hurting. I told her that this isn’t a game and that I need some time to think about it. She didn’t take this well and accused me of trying to ruin her life with her.”
“She told me that she is going to call my mom if I don’t give her a chance. (Her tone wasn’t demanding / condescending or anything. It was obvious she was hurt too). As much as I love her, I know this is not how partners act, and I haven’t done anything to deserve this. Stand up and leave one day?”
Well, his girlfriend kept her word and did call his mom before calling several of his best friends. His mom and friends are siding with his girlfriend and think he should simply take her back.
His mom then mentioned if he even dared to date another woman, she would never be accepting of them at all.
He’s certainly upset about not only what his girlfriend did; but that his loved ones don’t care about how he’s left feeling amid all of this.
So, he’s wondering if he really should get back together with her. On top of that, he did sleep with another woman that they both do know while they were broken up, and he’s trying to decide if he should tell her that too.
What would you do if you were in his situation?
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