“He has clearly expressed this to other people (which I just found out). I’m having a hard time understanding him because I’ve always told him I’d stand by him unconditionally because I love him; even if he wasn’t financially stable, it would more of how do “we” make ends meet more than “I should leave him” I feel like he valued me more when he thought I would go to med school.”
“I’m not saying I’m not going to do anything, I know the quality of life I want, and I know I need to make money to be happy because, unfortunately, I like expensive things and also value financial stability.”
One of the people that her boyfriend has told about her decision to no longer apply to medical school includes his sister.
His sister then turned around and mentioned to her that she really needs to figure out what she wants to do for the rest of her life career-wise prior to them even thinking about marriage.
She’s devoted the last 7 years of her life to her boyfriend, and she can’t believe he’s hitting the brakes on moving their relationship to the next step in light of her not wanting to go to medical school.
She’s left wondering what to think of their relationship. Do you think what her boyfriend said to her is fair?
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