While On Vacation With Her Boyfriend, His Ex Sent Him A Message Saying She’s Moving To Their City And She’s Thinking This Girl Might Be Trying To Steal Him From Her
A 28-year-old woman is currently with her boyfriend, who is 27. Before her boyfriend began dating her, he was in a 4-year-long relationship with his 24-year-old ex-girlfriend.
Her boyfriend split up with his ex 5 years ago because their relationship was toxic and overdramatic.
Her boyfriend’s ex also cheated on him multiple times and then claimed she did it because he gave her issues with her body image.
She was manipulative, self-centered, and obsessive. How does she know? Well, she attended college with both of them and got a front-row seat to this dumpster fire.
“This girl did several very, very questionable things involving him, me, or the public’s attention, but I’m trying to be positive and think maybe she has grown,” she explained.
“Essentially just know she used to demonstrate attention-seeking behaviors and needed validation a lot when I knew her.”
“Like, the kind of girl who finds out she might have a hip tumor and starts rolling around in a wheelchair except when she wants to go hiking. I distinctly remember another night when we were hanging out, and she took off her clothes and was crying and talking about how ashamed of her body my SO made her feel, and then she told me she loved me.”
Her boyfriend’s ex did some weird things in an effort to get her to be more open with her, and then she woke up one day to find out that this girl cut her off as a friend.
She later found out from her boyfriend that this girl accused her of being a trigger to the trauma she had, but she knows better.
Svetlana Sokolova – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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She got cut off right after they both had compared the scores they got on the GRE. She knew this girl was envious that she did better, and that’s the reason why their friendship ended so abruptly.
Well, she knows the other contributing factor had to be that this girl felt she “threatened her relationship.”
So after this girl stopped being friends with her, she felt awful. She really believed that they were friends, and it really did take her years to get over her hurt.
2 years after her boyfriend dumped this girl, she got with him, and they have been with one another for the last 3 years.
After the breakup, this girl sent her boyfriend a couple of messages to check on how he was doing, and he would reply and also message her too, however they have not spoken since 2019.
She and her boyfriend live in Washington, and they are on vacation right now. Her boyfriend’s ex just messaged him stating that she knew they were away (and she has no clue how this girl knows this) before saying she landed a new job as the director of a homeless shelter right where they live.
This girl sent the message to her boyfriend through LinkedIn, which she found strange, and her boyfriend agreed.
Her boyfriend did let her see all of the messages, which made her feel a small bit better, but she’s still worried that this girl is out to steal him from her.
“Hers were a lot longer, talking about how she has started her own social work initiative NGO and also found a job in the PNW because the mountains and trees call to her, which is a very my-SO thing to say, so I believe she was trying to connect with him emotionally,” she said about the messages this girl sent to her boyfriend.
“The way she talks is very flowery and emotionally powerful. She is a good speaker and writer. She also mentioned it being hard to meet people.”
In response, her boyfriend sent her a very short message back, and that was it on his end.
“It is honestly freaking me out a little that she is so much closer to us geographically and so comfortable casually messaging him,” she continued.
“I know we don’t own the PNW, but she can be kind of conniving, and I don’t know what is innocent.”
Do you think it would be ok for her to ask her boyfriend to block this girl?
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