His Mom’s Fiancé Called His Wife Ugly, And Now His Wife Doesn’t Want Him To Go To The Wedding, But He Is Refusing And Claiming He Needs To Support His Mom
This man’s mother is getting married very soon. And honestly, he is super happy for her– even though he does not particularly like his soon-to-be stepfather.
Apparently, his mom was pretty much a single parent throughout his entire childhood because his dad did not make an effort at all. So, his mom did everything for him and gave him the best life that she possibly could.
For the past couple of years, though, there has been some tension between his wife and his mother. Nothing especially mean happened, but he claims that the two women simply do not “gel.”
This has caused him and his mom not to be super close as of late. Nonetheless, he still really wants to go to her wedding to show his support.
“She is really happy for the first time I can remember,” he said.
The largest issue with his attendance at the wedding, though, ties back to an insanely rude comment his mom’s fiancé said about his wife.
It all happened about a year and a half ago when his mom was asking her fiancé how to crop a photo on her phone– which included his wife.
And it appears that his future stepfather had no clue that his wife was around because what he said afterward was horrible.
“He asked if my mom wanted him to crop [my wife’s] ‘ugly bull face out,'” he recalled. Yikes!
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Understandably, his wife was beyond devastated after overhearing that and actually went to him in tears.
So, he went to confront his soon-to-be stepfather and actually completely freaked out on him.
Now, his mom’s fiancé did end up apologizing. But, the fiancé just kept claiming not to have known that his wife was nearby as if that was supposed to make his comment any better.
In turn, his wife has honestly never forgotten about the incident or forgiven his mom’s fiancé. Moreover, his wife feels really embarrassed, even just being in the same room as the guy.
This means that he and his wife no longer celebrate holidays or anything with his mom. She will still visit occasionally, only when she is not with her fiancé.
But, he claims that his mom is a very busy woman, so they just do not see her that much anymore.
“And she has implied this is ridiculous, and my wife needs to get over it,” he added.
However, it is clear that his wife has not gotten over it– and for good reason. So, after he received the wedding invitation recently, he already knew that she would not want to go. He also claims to have totally supported that decision.
But then, his wife reportedly “dropped a bombshell” on him. Apparently, she did not want him to attend the wedding, either.
His wife believes that if he goes, it will feel like a betrayal. Moreover, she thinks that he should stand by her in order to show his mom that, one, it is wrong to marry such a jerk, and two, that his wife is his priority.
Quite frankly, though, he just did not fully agree with his wife’s perspective and tried to “gently explain” how he could not just miss the wedding.
“I feel my mom deserves to be finally happy, and I want to be there for her,” he vented.
Unsurprisingly, though, his wife was downright furious after she found out he still planned on attending the wedding.
So now, even though he has no plans to miss the wedding, he has still been left wondering if going even after his future stepfather called his wife ugly would be the wrong thing to do.
If his future stepfather felt so comfortable making a horrible comment about his wife to his mother, do you think they talk badly about his wife often? What about his mom thinking his wife needs to just “get over it” even after his future stepfather never really issued a proper apology? If you were his wife, would you want him to go to this wedding? If you were in his shoes, what would you decide to do?
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