These People Recently Discussed Their Favorite Parts About Being Married, And Their Responses Are Truly Heartwarming
Many Millenials and Gen Zers have sworn off marriage– citing antiquated ideals, unstable social and political landscapes, and intimidating divorce rates as reasons not to tie the knot.
Plus, with the dating scene rapidly changing– normalizing casual partnerships and “situationships” more than ever before– marriage is no longer the “end goal” for everyone.
And unfortunately, this has left some young people hanging in the balance.
Perhaps they grew up picturing a loving marriage with children, a nice house, and a pretty white picket fence. At the same time, though, they see the opposing argument and realize how difficult marriage can really be.
If you can relate and would like some renewed hope that marriage is not all bad, some Redditers recently took to the internet to share their favorite parts about being married. And honestly, the responses are truly heartwarming– and may even get you to reconsider your “no marriage” stance.
A Spouse Is Like A Built-In Best Friend
“Having someone to share day-to-day life with.”
“Having someone to share moments with– good, bad, or weird.”
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“We went to Disney World this summer, and my husband got sick and wasn’t able to join us for the last two park days. So, it was just me and our three kids– all old enough that it wasn’t a nightmare, thankfully.”
“But while we had a lot of fun, just the four of us, there were moments of sheer joy for my kids, and I was sad that he wasn’t there to share that with us.”
“Probably the sense of security. I have a best friend who knows everything about me and actually loves me, and cares about my happiness. I don’t feel alone or empty anymore. It’s the best!”
Who You Can Laugh, Cry, And Just Be Yourself With
“The ability to be utterly ridiculous and know your hubby isn’t going to take it seriously. Having ‘inside jokes and gestures’ that only the two of you ‘get.'”
“And the ability to see something happen, look at each other, and know you are both thinking about the same past event.”
“Non-verbal communication is strong. My wife knows me very well and easily picks up when I’m upset, sad, or anything out of the ordinary and can help.”
Who Gives You Strength And Security, Or Makes You Feel Warm And Fuzzy Inside
“She gives me the strength I would have never known.”
“Knowing that no matter what happens, as long as I have them, we will be okay.”
“Having someone you can rely on when you need help– for everything from the tiny to the huge.”
“Waking up and falling asleep with her. Her warmth and softness.”
“A great many things in this world are scary, cold, dark, and lonely. She is the opposite of that. She’s warm, bright, and friendly, and she shares her life with me. And that fills me with gratitude and love.”
“Unlimited hugs.”
And Who Loves You Unconditionally
“We balance each other out.”
“He knows me and understands me better than anyone else in the universe. He knows and loves me when I’m strong, fierce, and independent. He’s proud of me for my strength. He also knows and loves me when I’m not so sure or need to feel coddled and looked after.”
“He takes care of me and treats me like I’m precious. I’m a person of many contradictions, but he always knows what I need– even though that may change from moment to moment.”
“Having someone that gets you and knows what you need. Seeing the love in their eyes when they look at you.”
If you are married, what’s your favorite part about having a spouse? And if you previously swore off marriage, have these anecdotes made you reconsider that stance?
You can read the original thread on Reddit here.
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