Who You Should Ask To Walk You Down The Aisle If You’re Not On Good Terms With Your Dad

While planning your wedding, you will be confronted with countless, often stressful decisions.
For the main course, will you serve meat or fish? Do you want lilies or roses in your floral centerpieces? And will your guests toast with champagne or wine?
Arguably the most deeply personal decision of all, though, is who you choose to walk you down the aisle.
Traditionally, brides are accompanied down the aisle by their fathers. But, while this is an ideal option for some people, not everyone is on good terms with their dad.
Perhaps you are estranged from your father, he cannot make it to the wedding, or you simply just are not that close with him anymore.
Regardless of the situation, you don’t have to feel like you are left without any other options. Instead, there are plenty of alternative people who you can ask to take your hand and lead you to the altar.
So, let’s run down a few tried and true options that are growing ever more popular in modern weddings.
A Grandparent
If you are fortunate enough to have a grandparent who played an important role in your life, they can be a great choice to accompany you down the aisle.

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Maybe your grandmother taught you to bake, or your grandfather offered a listening ear whenever you needed it.
Either way, grandparents often have a special place in our hearts, and choosing to have them by your side can be a meaningful gesture to honor their impact on your life.
You can even opt to have both your grandmother and grandfather accompany you, too. Simply have them each take one arm and lead the way!
Your Mother Or Stepfather
If you have a complicated or distant relationship with your dad, then you might want to consider asking your mother to walk you down the aisle.
Mothers across the country have been increasingly taking on this role over the past decade. And honestly, they are an awesome choice. After all, your mother might have been there for you through it all– from infancy to engagement.
So, why not opt to hold her hand and give her one of the most important roles at your wedding?
Likewise, if you have a stepfather who was influential in your life, he can be an excellent option, too. Many people forge deep and long-lasting relationships with their stepparents– especially if a stepparent entered their life at a younger age.
If you feel the same about your stepfather, he would likely be honored to take on such an important responsibility on your big day. Plus, by asking him to walk you down the aisle, you may even make your relationship that much deeper.
A Sibling Or Another Close Relative
If you have a sister, brother, aunt, or uncle who you absolutely adore, they might be the perfect person to walk you down the aisle.
Perhaps your sister is your best friend in the entire world. Or, your brother has always had your back and looked out for your best interest.
You may even have an aunt or uncle who was like a second mother or father to you. If this is the case, you can’t go wrong with asking them to accompany you down the aisle.
The most important thing is that you choose someone who you genuinely feel close to. That way, your wedding experience will feel special, sincere, and heartfelt.
A Close Friend
Family is not always defined by blood. So, whether you are no longer close with your family– or just don’t feel comfortable asking one of your family members– a close friend can be a great way to go.
You may have a childhood best friend who has stuck by your side throughout every challenge and triumph. Or, maybe you have a mentor who helped guide you through adulthood.
Either way, just be sure to pick someone who you know loves and supports you.
Walk Alone
It might feel like there is so much pressure for brides to walk down the aisle with someone– even if it is not their father.
At the end of the day, though, you can always opt to walk alone if you don’t want to ask anyone else in your life to accompany you.
Yes, it is a non-traditional approach. But it is becoming increasingly common among modern brides.
Walking alone down the aisle can also be a powerful and empowering statement, too– symbolizing your own strength, courage, and independence.
Plus, your wedding is ultimately your big day. So, you should never feel bad about making it your own, going against societal norms, and celebrating your love of your partner in whatever way feels most natural for you.
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