Katharina Buczek
Still, she wound up going dress shopping with her mom. And at the very first store they visited, she found “the one”– the perfect dress she had always dreamed of.
Just to be sure, though, she and her mom still went to the second, third, and fourth stores they had planned to visit. While there, she tried on all of their dress options, too. But she still loved “the one” she had found earlier.
It was also at this point that she learned her parents really wanted to be involved in the purchase. Apparently, her mom revealed how her father had always intended to pay for her wedding gown.
That’s why her mom actually encouraged her to buy the dress she picked out on the spot. So she did, and she went home that night feeling beyond happy. Once she actually talked to her fiancé and told him about the dress, though, he was actually pretty displeased. In fact, while he was a little upset with her, he was more so just disappointed.
Apparently, her fiancé claimed that her parents wasted money on her wedding gown instead of helping pay for other wedding things they needed– such as flowers or a photographer. But honestly, she felt like his sour response to her parent’s sweet gesture really just ruined her moment.
“I’m upset that when I look back at this moment, I’ll remember him being upset and not me finding my wedding dress,” she vented.
At the same token, though, she’s not sure if her fiancé kind of had a point. So now, she’s been left wondering whether buying her wedding dress outright instead of using her future sister-in-law for a discount was the wrong thing to do.
Is it understandable why her fiancé wanted to save money where they could? At the same time, is it fair for her fiancé to be upset that she accepted a kind gesture from her parents? If your mom and dad wanted to buy your dress, would you let them?
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